Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Should I be concerned of the changing behavior of my boyfriend of 11 months?

First of all, my man and I aren't supposed to be seeing each other. He is my boss. We started dating in February. He got promoted in March and our office threw a party for him. He was scared and didn't know how to act around me since no one there knew we were together and we could get in a lot of trouble. He got really drunk and got touchy and flirty with everyone there, male and female, telling everyone he loved them and smacking asses. After forgiving him, he was good for a while. He tossed his lad mags and didn't go to the bars. Then his old buddy came and he went out and got trashed with him, but lied to me about it. Once again, I got over it. The I found out he looked at a video of a practically naked girl on youtube. She looked no better than I do, and I didn't understand why he did it. He said he clicked right out of it, and it was actually a link from a weightlifter vid. But it makes me think he's also doing worse and getting excited by it. I'm always jumping his bone, so he doesn't need to whack off. He's been working late more often and has started saying he can't sleep sometimes and goes dowstairs and watched tv at a low volume. I don't know if something is going on that he's hiding, or if I was just up his *** too much. Seems like the more I trust him, the more affectionate and honest he is.Should I be concerned of the changing behavior of my boyfriend of 11 months?
I wouldn't worry too much about his lad mags or naked girl videos, just something all guys do. If he didn't want to be with you he would leave you. Try talking to him about it if it really hurts you, if he understands how it makes you feel- then maybe he'll stop.Should I be concerned of the changing behavior of my boyfriend of 11 months?
seems like you are on his back about nothing. he likes porn and woman, so does any other man. get over it. As far as you know he has not cheated and that's all you can worry about.

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