Wednesday, September 14, 2011

My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?

My bf and I have been dating for about 3 months, weve known each other for about 5 or 6. Before he met me he slept around a LOT, hes been with lots of other women and used to use them as sex objects. He used to always tell me about how some girl is hot, how he%26039;d do her, etc. I was on the verge of breaking things off and hes gotten better. But old habits die hard. When he%26039;s flirting subconsciously it doesn%26039;t bother me TOO much. But he%26039;s recently admitted that he often flirts with other women on purpose, just %26039;for fun%26039;. Part of me thinks EVERY guy is like that and at least he isn%26039;t hiding it from me or lying. But another part just hates that it happens.He says I have nothing to worry about, but it still makes me upset.I said that I%26039;d try to work with his morals, but won%26039;t change my own.it will still upset and annoy me. He makes me happy, I like him. But his purposefully flirtatious attitude is hindering me from trusting him as much as I should,especially knowing his past.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
There%26039;s a huge difference between being friendly and flirting. More importantly, there%26039;s an enormous difference between flirting and being unfaithful.



If your boyfriend is just talking to other women, with no intention of cheating on you, then you would be best to leave it alone. If he does cheat on you, then you should accept he%26039;s unfaithful and you can%26039;t change him. Once a cheat, always a cheat, I%26039;ve found. Stopping him from flirting in front of you will only cause him to be more secretive.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
i think u should flirt right back and if he sayes something back u shuld call him outMy boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Flirt with guys in front of him.

And then if he gets peeved, discuss it with him.



Or you can just tell the truth and talk to him straight out. Don%26039;t demanding or anything though. Just tell him how you feel about it.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Be a flirt yourself, even if it really is not you. He will then see how much it bothers you. Best of Luck !My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Im married and i flirt with girls in front of my wife but only if they make first contact....but its harmless and alot of guys do it and i would never cheat on my wife.....you need to know when to end flirting before it becomes to inapropriate.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
i know that you love him but i mean if hes flirting with other woman ON PURPOSE then i think thats a little too much. talk to him about it. sit him down and have a really good talk. give it some time, if nothing has changed dump him because hes using you. if things have changed with him and his attitude keep him but watch out.



hope i helped.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Ur bf sounds like someone I dated for far too long. He%26039;s not going to change. If anything he%26039;s gonna start keeping things from you and you%26039;re gonna get your heart broken. You%26039;d be better off finding a guy who respects you and only wants to flirt with you and have all of your attention.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
if a guy does not do the things that you like your man to do naturally then you don%26039;t need to be with him. you can%26039;t change a person. if he really cared about you he wouldnt be flirting with anyone else. every guy is not like that i know that there is someone out there that will worship you and treat you like the godess that you are i know that if i can find one then so can you.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
%26quot;his purposefully flirtatious attitude is hindering me from trusting him %26quot;



good. Your instincts are sound, now trust them. you deserve better. (capatlize that period).My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Theres a difference between light and airy flirting - I call it being charming - and flirting for the purpose of getting a girl in bed.



What he%26039;s doing is inconsiderate and rude. You cant change him and he wont change until he gets older and (hopefully) a little more mature. Also keep in mind that hes doing this because of some kind of insecurity. Maybe he was fat as a kid or something and how he%26039;s reveling in the attention.



Regardless, youve told him how you feel about it. If he doesnt respect that, then move on.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Let him know how you feel and to tell you the truth you just have to trust him. But if you ever supect anything you are probably right.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
He isn%26039;t going to change.



All those women he used as sex objects had fun too; he made them happy or they wouldn%26039;t have slipped off their underwear.



Live with it and stop complaining or find a new boyfriend. If you decide to live with it, resign yourself to catching herpes from him, and have an AIDS test every three months or so.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
I say you leave his *** cuz flirting leads to sex with another women and he gone start playing you. and hell yeah pressure him...pressure him hard until he stops. If that doesn%26039;t work then fight fire with fire and do the same thing he doing. Or you can get with me...a MAN who would treat you good. call me 202-731-5859My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
If he flirts on purpose when he knows it bothers you, then he doesn%26039;t respect you. Ditch him.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Ahh..the Flirtacious Boyfriend. I had one of those. I think if you bring it up, he might get a little upset. But then theres not really another way to get him off the behavior. Sooner or later something big will hapen, due to his flirting. And you wont like it at all, and rather would have had him getting alittle upset. Just tell him that you are getting jealous and nervous, and hell talk to you about it. I talked to mine, and he stopped. But not before he got in some deep trouble with me, from what he got into with flirting. Tell him before someone else takes his flirting a little more seriously than he hoped.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
I don%26039;t think your feelings are unwarranted, I%26039;d feel the same way as you. When 2 people are dating exclusively, it is downright rude and disrespectful to YOU to do what he is doing. He either is with YOU, and loves YOU, or he isn%26039;t. It sounds like he likes having a girlfriend but at the same time wants to give a lot of attention to other women too. Basically, have his cake and eat it too. He surely wins.....but you don%26039;t. I don%26039;t know if you can change a man like this. It should come from within HIM to want to change this behavior, and I think he hasn%26039;t sown all his wild seeds yet. It doesn%26039;t sound like he has much respect for women, including you. I am sure he is charming and attractive, but this behavior is definitely UGLY. My own thoughts are that he isn%26039;t going to work out, but you could give it time if you really want to. But guard your heart on this one. Personally, there is NO WAY I%26039;d tolerate that kind of behavior. I wish you the best.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
He is who he is.

You like him for who he is.

If you try to change him, and he changes, will you still like him?

And if he doesn%26039;t change because he is who he is, will you dump him?

Life is.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
get out of that relationship you%26039;ve got nothing to loose if he slept around a lot what makes you think that hes not doing it right under your nose?My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
I think that if it%26039;s just harmless flirtation, then it%26039;s not a big deal. But if you have a feeling that he might act on those flirtations then I would bring those concerns to him.My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Leave him as soon as possible. HE will not change and things will get worse when you try to stop it. Because eventually he%26039;ll stop telling you about it and then you%26039;ll wonder whats going on in his head and it will drive you nuts. Obviously your an Innocent girl judging by how much it bothers you that he%26039;s slept around. Guy like that just have no morals towards the personal feelings of love. And those guys have a tendency to not be that romantic in bed...Its more like just a porno scene. Yuck!My boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
he is still a little boy and some guy%26039;s grow out of it and some do not and he like that attion and u should not get mad u know that he is just trying do get something out of them...

he loves u a lot and he is just playing wiht ther mind%26039;sMy boyfriend is a huge flirt, what should I do? Is there a way to change his behavior without PRESSURING him?
Girls go into thinking they can change a guy, and they can%26039;t. They are what they are. Especially when they don%26039;t see anything wrong with it. You might try showing him how it feels. Do what he does, flirt with all the guys you meet. If it doesn%26039;t bother him, you might as well move on. But if it makes him mad, then tell him that%26039;s how it makes you feel. If you don%26039;t have trust in a relationship, you won%26039;t make it.
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