I have great difficulty being able to communicate what I mean when I explain why I that forgiveness and blame is irrelevant once someone has started to make the decision to be good.
What defines someone as being good is when they are making an effort to no longer be bad.
It makes no sense for me to continue holding blame against someone once they have decided to change their behavior to good, as at this moment it is clear that they are already doing what I want (being good).
When people say that I do not forgive, then I cannot understand what they mean, as they are no longer being blamed anyway.
If there are not in a state of blame because they have changed their behavior, how can I forgive?
In the past, I saw that forgiveness is something that someone has to earn in someway. Or that at some point I have to force myself to swallow my continued anger against them for what they have done.
Now that I know, once people have altered their way of behaving, there is nothing to be angry about; it seems pointless to continue anger for something they are no longer doing wrong. They only option is to try their best to become good.
What relevance does forgiveness have for me to have to relinquish it in the first place, when they have changed their behavior?
I won't stop blaming people when they are still misbehaving; but once they have stopped, why would people feel that I have blame still continuing against people?
Forgiveness is not relevant, and therefore so is asking for forgiveness irrelevant; once you have you become of good intension.
I know that this is weird and different, but this is how I see; to me this is logic.
What do you think of this, and how do you suggest I explain this?
CREEDForgiveness and blame is not relevant after change to good behavior has begun?
I would argue that if you recognize a change in someone and accept them because of that change, then that is tantamount to forgiveness.Forgiveness and blame is not relevant after change to good behavior has begun?
Being Good is irrelevant
Knowing God is relevant
The POINT of forgiveness is that you are giving the right to punish to God. You are giving up your justice
Because you yourself are in need of forgiveness. We are all deserving of justice.
Grace is God giving us what we don't deserve
Mercy Is God not giving us what we DO deserveForgiveness and blame is not relevant after change to good behavior has begun?
How judgemental!
How arrogant!
How very Homo Sapien!Forgiveness and blame is not relevant after change to good behavior has begun?
Be sure that no one can be 100% good, asking God to forgive us is a must, our repetance is also a must.
No one has the moral and knowledge to blame other.
Keep trying to be pious and humble is the bets one can do.
All maters...
Peace
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