How do you get over the need to be nice & liked?

You know how there are people who go out of their way to please others? They listen patiently even when the person is boring, they appologize for something that is not their fault, they are afraid to speak up even when they are right.



I am not talking of changing behaviour only, because then you will have new behaviour that you are not comfortable with and will feel guilty.



So how do you get ofer the need to be nice %26amp; liked INSIDE?How do you get over the need to be nice %26amp; liked?
Start acting differently babe. Literally force yourself. when you act differently you send different messages to your subconscious mind and this changes your self-image e.g. hold back from apologises and you send the signal %26quot;i dont need their approval.%26quot;

Thoughts infleunce actions but actions also infleunce thought. You can change the thought first but persnally i find it much quicker and easier to take action and let the thoughts follow. of course it depends on you; whether your a thinker or a doer. But change either one and you break the cycle of how you see yourself and consequently how you are, and consequently how the world treats youHow do you get over the need to be nice %26amp; liked?
By developing what you love and do that fully, rather than undermining your self,by worrying what others think about you [actually that is none of your business what they think of you as there will always be good and bad to please and poop you off] Waste of energy and time, when you could be loving and expressing what you do well.How do you get over the need to be nice %26amp; liked?
Happiness comes from within.How do you get over the need to be nice %26amp; liked?
Hey Double,



Relax. Be yourself no matter what. Be genuine. Nothing is more important to success in life.

Don't try to be a jerk or vain if that is not what you feel deep inside.

Be yourself.



Take care.