How come a lot of people change their behavior after marriage as if their waiting to exhale??

I am going through this problem now. I feel as if it is always at least one spouse that has changed, not all the time. Although, change in behavior does occur quite often. For example, been married only 6mths. and already there is a change in my husband. Use to be fun, now he complains his way out of sthg., I realize he doesnt comprehend a lot of things and in denial about it, do aggrevating silly things now to get attention(ex.stare %26amp;standing in front of me naked) , sex drive decreased to twice a mth. sometimes not even. I was not expecting to see changes this drastic so soon after marriage.How come a lot of people change their behavior after marriage as if their waiting to exhale??
Just stay with it hunny....To love for better or worse.....How come a lot of people change their behavior after marriage as if their waiting to exhale??
wow that is a lot of change sounds like you didn't know him very well before getting married not much you can do nowHow come a lot of people change their behavior after marriage as if their waiting to exhale??
I really don't have any idea my husband is still the same way

just talk to him about it.How come a lot of people change their behavior after marriage as if their waiting to exhale??
Everybody is trying to put on their best face, this world is very superficial like that, a world that hasn't grown up and then when they get in real life situations they can't handle it. They throw a fit like a little child. That's all your seeing someone that can't handle the pressure and is throwing a fit, stomping his foot. He's tied down to responsiblity and this is when you find out what you have a boy or a man. Some things we go through to learn the ends and outs of a thing and when the real thing comes, it helps us to recognize what were looking at and by GODS permission to appreciate it, if that one doesn't get it straight, sometimes it's to late. 1 Cor. ch13 verse 11 When I was a child a spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child, but when I became a man a put away childish things.How come a lot of people change their behavior after marriage as if their waiting to exhale??
Been married for more years then I care to admit. LOL. Have advice for you. In a marriage one spouse will always give, change and sacrifice more than the other. One will always be more in love then the other. There is no such thing as perfect love and in a marriage both spouses will fall in and out of love repeatedly. It sucks. Its always the truth. But in a marriage both spouses need to be attentive to the others needs and desires. Example: My wife likes to dance. I hate to dance. I dance with her because she enjoys it. Also because I love her and want her to do the things she enjoys. Besides, I would be angry if she danced with someone else. Same with sex. It is both spouses DUTY to satisfy the other. Tell your husband this. But not in these words. Besides, rumor has it that sex is fun. Remind him.How come a lot of people change their behavior after marriage as if their waiting to exhale??
Well, girly, he was good during the honeymoon phase. After familiarity draws in, some men lose that spark and don't know love and marriage takes some work and brains to understand the hoenymoon phase being over and don't know how to keep the spark. This especially happens in men who are incomplete. They like the exciting beginning when everything is easy. But every new idea eventually gets old, that's when real love begins, but most men are not real men but still boys.



Get some self-help books, maybe some therapy, and see if you can train him...just be careful about this, because men don't like to know they're being trained. To a certain degree you have to expect some change but it's hard when you don't got a bright man who knows what to do!