Only little things can change and the best way is when our own behaviour functions as an example to them. Little by little they can get influenced and start practising ways more close to the behaviours we have shown to them.How can we effectively influence other people to change unwanted behaviors?
you can't generalize like that: some people are more influencable than other, and those are divided into people you talk to and convince or people you need to show and lead by example.
It also depends on the behavior you are trying to change: some are easy others not.How can we effectively influence other people to change unwanted behaviors?
unwanted behaviors maybe due to some psychological factors. we couldn't say a persons behavior normal if it does not conform to a society, however normal to him. behavior is taught, it is carried with emotions, so therefore, it is necesary for us to go more deeply in the context of emotions, to touch their lives. they might be disturbed, depressed, which made their actions classified as unwanted. Therapy (includes family, society, professionals) often times tackles with the emotions. Try to reach out their inferiorities.. try to make them feel understand. and the best thing is equalize their feelings with love and proper care. Unwanted behaviors are the result of their unmet needs. They might feel fixated, and its not easy for them to cope with such disturbances, but anyhow, trust can help a lot. try to make them feel they are important and they exist. focus more on their achievements and limit yourself on hitting them.
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