How to change my behavior?

my husband is a business man

i am also working, when he is in home he'll do all the household works, and at the night he'll do palm massaging and leg pressing i'll sleep happily



when he is not there, i can't sleep for the whole night

what to do?

how to change my behavior?How to change my behavior?
seenu

yr question has all the answers.

count yrself lucky,bless the stars and do not stretch yr luck

just do whta is right from the bottom of yr heart and u know what is that

u do not need advice

do not justify yrself with he likes it ( if he really does he must be a masochist................show a doc)

be aware and every action of yrs think and apply yrself ull be on the right path

good lluckHow to change my behavior?
Hi dr,

You are so lucky that you have such a wonderful and caring husband. In spite of his business related work pressure, he helps you in the domestic work, care you in the bed and gives you the comforts in life! You are really fortunate since most of the husbands are `selfish' in their behaviours. You are sleepless in his absence, because you lack something. What you should do is to keep a photograph you and your husband in a hugging posture next to your bed and look at it before you go to bed. Think of good moments you shared with him and all such nice things. You will slip into sleep. It is also a good idea to wash the legs in cold water before you go to bed! Try and you will like it. Best of luck and my best wishes to both of you.How to change my behavior?
unless you are physically disabled, that kind of treatment may not be appropriate. co-operation between people in completing any work. getting physical treatment also may not be unusual. but in your case, matter looks one way traffic. that is inappropriate!How to change my behavior?
atleast share the work ...afterall he cant do evrything by himself..How to change my behavior?
ithink u shiuld be thankfull to hte god of having so nice hhusband...but be same for ur husband also ..start from sharing household or the basic things...telling him that ur doing this bcause u feel comfortable in that....or u r showing ur love to him ...slowly slowly u will learn and he will also become use to of ur help and beleive me u will also feel comfortable in working for himHow to change my behavior?
O Bahen ji !You are so lucky to have such a husband in India where other PATIS are lazy and lethargic, still you cant sleep?

Get another husband on a trial base for A month. When you will have to do chuaka-bartan, ,jhhadu-ponchha, kapde-latte, sabzi lana........Then you will sleep nicely and understand the value of current Habby.How to change my behavior?
You along with your husband have to visit to a psychiatrist as early as possible.How to change my behavior?
Unbelaevable ,strange and simply despicable behaviour.There can be two things ,either your husband is

of femenin nature or you are telling lies. Maybe you are asking this question just for the sake of asking which is not ethical.How to change my behavior?
Hmmmm,what 2 say.u know what?u r not very fair or loving or nice either.the man is being too friggin nice and subservient!excessively!.the man is the head of the house whether u like it or not and even though we are equals in this century,he shldnt have 2 serve u that way no matter how much he loves u.

but i promise u,it will change.he is only human and he'll resent u one day.u'll wish u were dead especially if u kick or beat him like u say.so have a heart.convince him that he shldnt have 2 do all these things.besides,these things are better enjoyed when done sparingly, like when u r pregnant.if his peers found out,he'll be a laughing stalk.if u love him,u'll do as i say!