Sudden change in behavior and personality of friend?

ive known this person for about a year now and we had a class together last semester. she had the same personality and behavior throughout the semester and going into this semester. well this week she suddenly changed completely around and seemed gloomy, in class she didnt really seem to want anything to do with me at all, yet one night i bumped into her and she seemed fine for the most part. one of the days she was gloomy i walked her to her car (its who i am, old school and have chivalry) because we had a mugging in one of the school parking lots and the muggee was a teacher. well my friend is small and nobody ever messed with me so i felt that she was safer with me around. anyways back on track, she was asking me if she was wasting my time by walking with her and i said no and explained the whole thing with how i am. since this was after classes were over, could this have potentially caused her to feel more repulsive to me for no apparent reason? has anyone else experienced this? and for any women that read this, have any of you ever done this for some reason? could you please give an explanation if you did do this at one point.



one last thing, i was almost thinking she didnt feel right health wise or something. i dont know what it is but im concerned because its not like her.Sudden change in behavior and personality of friend?
DO NOT go to her work place expecting or planning to talk personal problems - even if you are trying to help her.

She has to work when she is at work. It is just not the place for you to try to be caring, even if, as you say, that is the kind of guy you are.



When she is at work, you can say HI, and NICE TO SEE YOU, but that is about it.



Whatever she is going through, i don't see that it is related to you at all. I think the most you should do is tell her that you are a good listener if something is bothering her, or if she needs help.Sudden change in behavior and personality of friend?
Maybe she has something going on at home??



If you acted anxious, like you had somewhere to be, then she may have got the feeling that you were only trying to be nice, but not really considerate... she may have got that impression... but im just guessing.Sudden change in behavior and personality of friend?
whatever it may be that is bothering her,

go find out by trying, then trying againSudden change in behavior and personality of friend?
i know how your friend is, because i had a change very similar, she wants to be alone, but she shoulnt be if you want the old her back stay around her or you will lose her as a friend, dont worry she is not suicidal. Most of the time when people change they dont notice till later, so she may not know she is behaving differently, just stay and be a great friend.Sudden change in behavior and personality of friend?
dont go to her work to talk to her about it. not exactly an appropriate place to do that. the car thing, thats something i say when i ask someone to do something that in the back of my head seems stupid to everyone else. maybe she thinks you like her and she doesnt like you so she is distanting herself. Maybe she is going through something outside of you and school and its putting her off - i know that when im hurt or stressed, i dont talk to anyone - last time i fell off the face of the earth for three weeks. But you'll never know the reason until you ask. She might not even know shes doing it. but work isnt the right place. wait until your alone with her.Sudden change in behavior and personality of friend?
Maybe something is bugging her a lot that causes her to be upset but she can't talk about it. People have so many problems. Other than that, she could want to break off the friendship.