My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i'm fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?

i don't believe in spanking him but i wont tolorate him calling his sister a ***** and his brother a douche bag. how can i appoarch this problem without spanking him?My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
stop saying those words in front of himMy 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Tell him that language is not allowed in the house and take away a toy or TV or put him in a time out.

And where in the world did a little kid hear language like that in the first place? That's the root of your problem.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Someone's teaching him those words......which is WAY wrong.



Time out.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
wash his mouth out with soap. literally. I'm not joking. everyime he calles his siblings something bad wash his mouth out with soap. after he really gets that you will wash his mouth out, threaten him and if he doesnt stop, actually wash his mouth out. eventually he will get it. the thing is, the only way a THREE YEAR OLD would know those words is if you use them, our your other children/his friends use them. get everyone to stop useing them. because you guys used them, he thought it was okay.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
My child would bite her big sister when she was 2. Every single time she did it, I put her the corner immediately. It took two weeks of this process, but she stopped for good.



There should be a consequence, it should be immediate, it should be consistent and it should be known to the child this is not tolerated in your home. Ever.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
A 3 year old does not know what he is saying. He is just repeating things he has heard. He may have picked up the words from adults or television. If he gets a reaction from you, he may repeat things again.

Try not to show shock --try to ignore him -- and pay attention to what he is hearing. Clean up his environment.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Everytime he calls htem those words send him to his room telling him to think about what he just said. explain to him we don't use those words and everytime he uses those words, he will have to go to his room. make the punishment fit the crime..he has to apologize to his siblings when he comes out. make him say%26quot; I am sorry for calling you a bad name%26quot; popping in the mouth does not work.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
those words shouldn't even be said around the kids. where is he learning this from .he don't even know what they mean to even get disiplined for it. he is only saying is because that is how other people in your home are expressing themselves. teach everyone else to choose there words wisely. and teach the little one other ways to express himself. like he can tell his sis she is being a meanie etc.and if he is getting it from the older kids start a cuss jar . everytime you hear the word said they get allowances taken away or they gotta give you a certain amount from there allowance. if they aint getting money then give them chores like scrubbing the toilet etc. fill the jar with chores or make them pay for there potty mouths. this should control the amount of swearing. good luck. its not the little ones fault that he is learning this. and if the kids are using money tell the little one if you dont say those words by the end of the week well use the cuss jar money to take you somewhere or buy you something. use lots of positive reinforcement good luck to youMy 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
He's either getting these words from you, another adult he's close to, TV or older kids. Ban those words from your house. The best advice I have ever heard is to tell the older kids what the words really mean - it worked well for my friend's daughter who liked to use the F word a lot. She was so embarrassed she never used it again (in front of her parents). A 3 year old wouldn't understand. What we do when our son calls us stupid is tell him %26quot;That's a put down. You hurt my feelings when you do that.%26quot; Then we make him apologise. It's worked for us. You might want to also use consequences - loss of TV time, certain toys, etc.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Kids repeat what they hear so, who ever is saying these words in front of him needs to stop. After he stops hearing others say these words explain to him they are not nice words and give him nice words to use. if he says them ignore it, to a poing and it should stop. Just say thats not nice to say, please dont use those words, calmly. dont make a huge deal out of it or he will keep saying them. Kids like a reaction. dont spank him, its not his fault he was taught these words, you just have to fix the problem by not exposing him to this language.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Stop cussing around him maybe?

Or if it's not you, then it has to be someone else.

So keep him away from that stuff and then he wont even know words like that exist.

to stop it, everytime he calls her a name shove a bar of soap in his mouth.

You say you won't tolerate it, then don't tolerate it.

Point and blank.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
I would first find out where he is hearing these words. What names is he being called?



At three he has no idea what they mean, except that they are getting a reaction from everyone....!



Not sure spanking is the answer...? Maybe timeout away from brother %26amp; sister whenever it occurs?



Good Luck!My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
I used mint sauce. We call it the bad sauce. If one of my children uses a bad word that's what they get. It works.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
They are just words lady, your kids are fine. Just tell your kid that those are hurtful words and will get him in a lot of trouble with authority figures, tell him to only use those words when they are called for. Like when someone is being really nasty to him. If says them when they are completely uncalled for, give him a timeout, super-nanny style. He'll listen eventually.