Is it really possible to change personal behavior?

I really respect personal feelings and intentions. I need also people to respect my personal choices. But when I get individuals going against my feelings and intentions I will fall in anger. How can I learn tolerance?Is it really possible to change personal behavior?
Learn to control ur mind,when people disagree with u don't get mad at them,instead think why r they donot agree with u,try to think from their point of view...and nobody's perfect,be calm and avoid what they say.Is it really possible to change personal behavior?
The only thing I can suggest is to do your best to put yourself in their shoes. It doesn't work every time but sometimes it can. Is it just frustrating that you are angered? As long as you don't make someone uncomfortable, you can feel however you want to feel.Is it really possible to change personal behavior?
try to think of things from the other person's point of view before you get upset. Also, realize that other's have a right to their own opinions and that everyone has their own beliefs, and sometimes you won't be able to change these things. then take a deep breath and count to 10....Is it really possible to change personal behavior?
most people feel anger when people go against your own feelings and intentions, but you could try to take these things to heart just take it in your stride, accept and understand what these individuals are trying to say and move on.Is it really possible to change personal behavior?
The answer to your question is another question. Does it occur very often that other people go against your feelings and intentions? If it is often, there may be something wrong with your view on yourself. If seldom, this is normal. Everyone gets into an argument sometimes just to get their point accross. The key is to review each other's point at a higher perspective.Is it really possible to change personal behavior?
It is hard ! I have learned it trough meditations. I used to degrade my ego as much as I can talking to myself something along these lines: Hey man, you're just incompetent fool, how can you possibly be so aloof ?! I mean look at them man; they're doctors, enginers and all that stuff, yet they're humble, disciplined and obedient to their superior ! You're a mere child with such great demands and so little to stand for...In short: man, you're a piece of s*** ! Yet they respect you, now why is that ?! Well, maybe you're not as bad as that after all, you can do this and that, you can read and write...that's OK, just don't let your spirit soar too high; landings may be hard...Is it really possible to change personal behavior?
Yes, it is possible to change your own personal behavior. It is not impossible, but can be difficult to change someone else's personal behavior.

To get others to respect your choices, make certain they are made with logic and not just emotion. That will make it easier for you to explain your decisions and for others to accept them.

As far as tolerance, keep in mind that somethings are a matter of personal choice and don't affect others. I think chocolate ice cream is the best flavor. My friend thinks vanilla is the best. Neither one of us is wrong, just different. I can tolerate these kinds of differences. I know stealing is always wrong. My friend thinks it's okay in certain situations. This is not a matter of opinion. I have to choose whether or not to tolerate this behavior and continue or end this friendship.