How to change someones behavior?

I recenetly got married (arranged) and now i feel that my wife is very immature and behave childish even in front of my parents.

The way she walks, laugh or dree is not suitable to my family. I am trying to push her to be like us, but... I live a bit upscale life style and I so when I go out with my friends she embarrass sometime. I know I have no writes to change anyone but I want her to behave mature and well mannered.



Please suggest and make my life more simple...



I value for your time.How to change someones behavior?
I'm guessing here that as this is an arranged marriage that you don't know each other very well.So you are going to have to give each other time to discover each others likes and dislikes etc. The only thing I can suggest is that you yourself talk to her and try to understand that she is young. There's plenty of time for you to mature together.How to change someones behavior?
The simplest way to make your life easier is to accept your wife for who she is-- this is who she was when she married you, and if you're embarrassed, the problem is yours, not hers.How to change someones behavior?
get a grip of yourself, the poor girl probably doesn't even want to be married to you and it's no wonder, you sound like a control freak!!! Do her a massive favour and set her free, let her find somebody she is more suited to and actually wants to be with.How to change someones behavior?
First you cannot change someone's behavior and you will make both of you miserable if you continue to try and change her. YOu do not mention ages but your wife probably acts immature because she is immature. YOu are way too critical of her, you do not like how she walks talks or even laughs. What is wrong with YOU? You also need to get your parents out of your marriage. What they think should not be a part of how you and your wife live your life. IF you are going to keep that attitude than you need to talk to them about why did they arrange a marrige with her since you are so displeased with her personality. YOU are the one that needs to grow up and be a man that stands on his own. You sound like a great big mamma's boy trying to please the family instead of pleasing your wife. LIfe is not simple and only a child expects it to be. Grow Up.How to change someones behavior?
You can't change anyone's behavior but can change the way you react to someone.

If you are so embarassed, why did you marry her?