He says he wants to try . he wont leave . he helps in other ways. we love each other. have a family together but no ambition for himself or others low self esteem.no goals at 27!! Is it just a waist of my time. can any one really change for the better? how long should it take? what signs should i look for to know that he is turning around, and what can I do in the meantime???Honestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
Yes they sure can if they want and choose to... It is all about choices and we can choose to change and better ourselves or not. Seek marriage counseling and see if he will go with you since he wants to try and work on the marriage. Why does he feel the way he does and has such a low self esteem... He may need counseling and help too. This will take time BUT you as his wife need to love him where he is at and do all you can to try and help and make the situation better for you and for your husband. He may also be depressed or really stressed out... Have him seek medical attention too and they may also put him on medication. You need to be a wife and support and help him with this. Be there for him and dont give up!
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http://www.marriagetoday.orgHonestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
A relationship without at least similar goals NEVER work. How can you walk together if you are going for two different destinations? If you are the highly motivated one, what can he do to help you achieve your goals? I think what you really want is a guy who is as motivated and goal oriented as you are. This is not the guy.Honestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
I dont think he will ever have anything....if hes 27....and has no career.....people who change have to want to change.....sadly in his case ...the patterns setHonestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
Yes, people can change for the better, but they have to really want to change and then commit to the process, and it's no fun at all--smile.
That's why many people don't change unless change is force upon them.Honestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
Some people can change for the better but, It sounds like he has other problems that run very deep. Depression and anxiety are what you sound like your dealing with and these are very hard to deal with let alone over some.Honestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
dump him
you should NEVER hook up with any guy with low self esteem
that shows in effect YOU have low self esteem
to say we love each other is to say %26quot;i cannot get any better at the moment so i'll settle for you%26quot;
and you know you can get better
the problem with being with a loser is that they tend to drag those around them down to their level
you're only now seeing it and that's why it's irritating you
the fact that you had a family to gether in a sense is what girls usally do to men, have a child to %26quot;trap%26quot; the guy.. but in this case it's done in reverse
children are best served a happily family enviroment
this means even if you leave him and you must go it alone so as long as your happy it's much better for the child, so do not use that as an excuse to stay with him
he will not change long term as he is set in a pattern and if he did change you would have seen it by now once he had the child
as that's usally a main motivator for any guy lacking any sort of ambition
as for him not leaving
you do not mention if you to are renting, if he is on a lease
when the lease comes up, move, child and all and do not let him move in with you
you definitely lack a backbone if you do not have the vocal and mental / emotional authority to tell him to leave.. i hate to say this but you must reach inside and be a real ********* to get him to move out ..
either that or make rigid demand and penalties ( cut him off 100% sexually for example ) to get him to get his rear in action
if in the end you have realize you have hitched your life with a loser, then do what you must to leave, shut off all contact with him and find another well motivated guy who likes you and your child
they are out thereHonestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
Sometimes people do change. He sounds as if he may need some therapy. He could have a really depressed mental state or bi polar disorder of some level. He should have goals at this age. Perhaps he should see a counselor or psychiatrist to find out.
Sometimes all it takes is a bit of counseling and a medication to get people up out of the dumps and motivated.Honestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
Absolutely.... People CAN and DO change... every day... but they can't be coaxed into it... they can't be threatened into it... offered up ultimatums...
Change... real life altering wholesale... %26quot;I'm going to be better from now on%26quot; type of personal epiphanies. Only come from within.
The hardest part of loving someone who is %26quot;dysfunctional%26quot; in one way shape or form is watching them... watching them slip, slide and stumble through their lives.... Absolutely the %26quot;problem%26quot; may be obvious and apparent to anyone from the outside... but internally... people can be pretty delusional about the actual control they have over themselves.
It can take a lifetime... the best thing YOU can do... is to start getting educated... If you are in it for the long haul... start with counselling for yourself... find out if you really want to help... or if there's something lacking in your life that his dependency fills... once you are clear on your motives for sticking around... then you should be better equipped to help him...
Just waiting is JUST that... nothing happens when your waiting... take action and start NOW... You have a sense that things could be better... so open the door step outside and START!!!Honestly, can people ever change their behavior for the better in a longterm relationship?
27 is still very young. My husband is 40 and I just in the last 2 years have seen an improvement. But yes mine has changed in several different areas. If you love him and are willing to stick with it as he grows up. which can take years then some things should change. It took me throwing my husbands clothes out on the front porch along with everything he owned and didn't let him back for 2 weeks to show him that I would not have a man that went to the bar everyday after work. I told him that some men may do that but not my man. he never has since then. 27 is still so young. He should have goals and dreams. Does he have a job? You didn't really say what the exact problems are so its kind of hard to help.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
My child is very verbal, enjoys telling stories and explaining how thing are done the correct way. Recently my child has begin to cry when they get frustrated or don't get their way, this is a very new behavior, my child did not do it when they were younger. The rountine has not changed, we have not moved, no new babies, no new rules. I can not determine what the problem might be. I am hoping that it is a phase and it will pass. I don't know if it is apart of turning four or what. Any feedback would help out.What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
My son is the same way he get so frustrated when he tries to do something,and he just can't get it right.I think it's b/c he has more of an attention span,then he did when he was younger.When he was younger if something didn't go his way he would move on to something else.Now he knows that he can do these things like sing a song he knows the words to but messes up,it just aggravates him!Same way it would you or I !What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
I am guessing it is all about being four...had two kids and four, for both, was challenging for me...really...they are starting to know thtat if hey act up, things change, and they get attention...it is a form of defiance and assertivness....don't worry mom...just hang in there...
Just wait till he's a teen ager....you will be writing back!!!!What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
My child is acting very similar to yours as well. He's also in a talking back stage and has started swearing. The first time I heard him say the F-word I couldn't help but giggle...it was kinda cute coming out of such a little guy. But of course I talked to him about inappropriate words. It's rare that he swears but talks back a lot and I'm sure he will will grow out of that stage in time.What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
are u giving in to him when he cries. he learned from somewhere that if he cries u will give in. my son cries when he doesn't get his way too, he does it sometimes. i think he does it more when he is tired.
my son is also 4 and the only thing i noticed different is that he is talking more and telling funny stories. he still throws fits but its less often than before. he also decided that he is afraid of clowns.What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
they turn annoyingWhat are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
My little boy likes everything to be EXACTLY the way he wants it--neat, orderly, etc. He is very meticulous for a four year old. Unfortunately, when things don't work out in the way he would like, he vents. The only way he knows how to get his frustration out is by crying. He's also testing his boundaries. He hasn't decided if I will coddle him or repremand his behavior, so he tries it more frequently. At 4 1/4, I think (hope) he's beginning to learn. Luckily, he's around other small children who vent their frustrations similarly and he assumes they are being naughty. I think he's starting to put it together.How do you make a quilt Ideas for a Summer quilt layout
My son is the same way he get so frustrated when he tries to do something,and he just can't get it right.I think it's b/c he has more of an attention span,then he did when he was younger.When he was younger if something didn't go his way he would move on to something else.Now he knows that he can do these things like sing a song he knows the words to but messes up,it just aggravates him!Same way it would you or I !What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
I am guessing it is all about being four...had two kids and four, for both, was challenging for me...really...they are starting to know thtat if hey act up, things change, and they get attention...it is a form of defiance and assertivness....don't worry mom...just hang in there...
Just wait till he's a teen ager....you will be writing back!!!!What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
My child is acting very similar to yours as well. He's also in a talking back stage and has started swearing. The first time I heard him say the F-word I couldn't help but giggle...it was kinda cute coming out of such a little guy. But of course I talked to him about inappropriate words. It's rare that he swears but talks back a lot and I'm sure he will will grow out of that stage in time.What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
are u giving in to him when he cries. he learned from somewhere that if he cries u will give in. my son cries when he doesn't get his way too, he does it sometimes. i think he does it more when he is tired.
my son is also 4 and the only thing i noticed different is that he is talking more and telling funny stories. he still throws fits but its less often than before. he also decided that he is afraid of clowns.What are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
they turn annoyingWhat are some of the behavior changes you noticed in your child when they turned four?
My little boy likes everything to be EXACTLY the way he wants it--neat, orderly, etc. He is very meticulous for a four year old. Unfortunately, when things don't work out in the way he would like, he vents. The only way he knows how to get his frustration out is by crying. He's also testing his boundaries. He hasn't decided if I will coddle him or repremand his behavior, so he tries it more frequently. At 4 1/4, I think (hope) he's beginning to learn. Luckily, he's around other small children who vent their frustrations similarly and he assumes they are being naughty. I think he's starting to put it together.
Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Just a simple question, do you change your behavior first or you attitude in order for you to be a better person? Why?
I'm dealing with a teenager with problems and need to understand how to aproach the situation. The situation is not important, I'm just wondering if we need to work on behavior or attitude...?Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
i would say attitude, because,
if you can give this teen a different outlook at the situation, it may change his/her attitude toward the situation....once the attitude changes - the behavior will change.
get creative, think back to when you were a teen.........
GOOD LUCK!Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
I believe it is attitude. Once the attitude gets adjusted, I think the behavior will followWhich should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Behavior, attitude will follow.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
The behavior ought to come first, I think. I have heard it said that %26quot;we can't think our way into right actions, but we can act our way into right thinking.%26quot;Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
I think sometimes that attitude affects behavior. If someone is in a good mood their behavior is also good? Does this help?Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
your attitude and your behavior will follow. Because you put goodness in you get goodness in return.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
I think it depends on the situation, in general, I'd have said the attitude because PERCEPTION pretty much rules the way we interact or respond to stimuli in the world.
However, take smoking. I stopped smoking but really felt resistant. I still did it because it was the right thing to do (this is over 10 years ago!) but my attitude wasn't %26quot;with it.%26quot; It took years to actually be a %26quot;happy ex-smoker%26quot; (one who feels sure she never wants to do it again).Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Change your attitude first,then your behavior will follow.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
behavior first...then attitude.
stop smoking so you don't pollute your body...then you can work on being %26quot;happy%26quot; about it.
stop punching people and you won't go to jail...then you can work on interpersonal relationships.
start treating your parents with respect...then they will learn to respect you...then you will develop self-respect.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
You could argue both points, I think. People might say that you can't change the output unless you change the reason behind that output, so you would have to address attitude first. I believe, and tend to practice, the idea that if you embrace a certain behaviour...your attitude can change along with it. For instance, I found myself a couple of years ago making rather stereotypical, generic comments of Hispanic people and I sounded racist. So, I signed up to help assist in an ESL class. My attitude didn't change overnight, but my behavior was different as I was interacting with Hispanics, and I never had before. And my attitude changed because of the behaviors that I adopted. If you have a teenager, they are old enough to understand that sometimes you have to act a certain way even if you feel like being another way (i.e. being polite to a rude teacher, not hitting a classmate, listening to poeple in authorative positions) and they should be able to adjust their behaviors and hopefully their attitude can change as well, and if it doesn't, at least they are behaving correctly. If you thye can't control their behaviors, despite their attitude, then you have bigger problems than just a rotten attitude. You have a teenager who won't listen to authority and can't except other points of view and who might have trouble adapting to society's expectations.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
behavior first! you must restore control and sanity...
... and yet attitude may be necessary to get anywhere at all so
do your best and work on both and try to get some outside help as well, AND
consider Alanon... it will transform your life and give you WHAT YOU NEED... give it a try and good luck
.
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/meetings/
.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Attitude determines behavior, so one must change the attitude first, and then behavior followsWhich should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Free your mind, and your @ss will follow. Attitude first, I think.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
He who seperates himself indulges his desires and shows contempt for sound advise of any kind. (Proverbs 18:1)
To act without knowing how you function is not good; and if you rush ahead you will miss your goal.(19:2)
A person is responsible to prepare his heart, but how the tongue speaks is from Adonai. (16:1)
Giving an honest answer is like giving a kiss.(24:26)
With patience a ruler can be won over, and a gentle tongue can break bones. (25:15)
Above everything else, guard your heart; for it is the source of life's consequences. Keep crooked speech out of your mouth, banish deciet from your lips. Let your eyes look straight ahead, fix your gaze on what lies in front of you. Level the path for your feet, let all your ways be properly prepared; tehn deviate neither right nor left; and keep your foot far from evil. (4:23-27)
I hope this helps. Your behavior is a reflection of your thoughts, and your thoughts are reflected by your behavior.
All the answers you need, are written in the book of life, and if you lean not on your own understanding, but on the word of God, your paths will be set straight before you. The best thing you can do for this troubled teen, is show by example.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Almost all behavior is based on a belief system or attitude.
First,
(1)Perhaps you could consider changing your approach when dealing with the situation. Remember words have %26quot;energy%26quot; and if you tweak your approach a bit
and say that the two of you are attempting to solve a problem together.
(If this is a Parent/Child relationship I'm assuming you would both like to express love to each other more and have a peaceful relationship.)
(2) Base your problem solving on mutual respect.
You may want to consider changing your mind set when communicating with him/her
Your statement is , %26quot;I'm dealing with a teenager with problems%26quot;
Words have an energy
Try this idea %26quot;I'm dealing with a teenager who is discovering who they are, and I would like to help.%26quot;
I think that if you each sit down and write what your ideal outcome would be and then share it with each other. You can see what you have in common and I'll bet it is more similar than you may assume now.
(3) Look at how each of you can compromise and find a place to start.
(4)
Get human - tell him or her something real about you.
ie: your insecurity's , struggles and how you worked it out.
Ask them to share the same with you.
I also Highly suggest that you watch the %26quot;Secret%26quot; together - you can watch it online or buy a copy, borrow a copy.
here is a link to the site:
http://www.thesecret.tv/
Most of all be kindWhich should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Either and both.
If you gave a hint of a clue as to what is going on, we might be able to make reasonable suggestions.
As others have said: behavior flows from attitude; and attitude flows from behavior.
People have been able to change their thinking, and find their behavior changes; and people have changed their behavior, and found their thinking changes.
The interaction between these, and the nature of change itself is anything BUT simple.
Short answer: change the one that seems changeble or that the person is willing to change.
I highly recommend you get yourself a copy of Virginia Axline's Play Therapy (the principles apply to older kids -- even if play isn't the main mode).
When you try to change someone, they tend to resist.
You're telling them that they are not acceptable as a human being the way they are.
They probably are the way they are because everyone in their lives has always been communicating this very message.
If you listen to the teen, and really grasp what they're saying, and why they feel as they do, and accept them for who they are, that can give them the emotional space to reexamine how they feel and act, and come to new ways of being on their own.
When you try to get them to change, it's just much less effective.
Uh, and, the situation is SO important -- knowing something about it would have been helpful.
If this person wants to change, that, too, would make a big difference in how to proceed.
But if they don't (you don't give a sex, and I hate writing filled with she/he all over the place), then they won't -- people can rarely be argued out of things they didn't reason their way to.
I'm dealing with a teenager with problems and need to understand how to aproach the situation. The situation is not important, I'm just wondering if we need to work on behavior or attitude...?Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
i would say attitude, because,
if you can give this teen a different outlook at the situation, it may change his/her attitude toward the situation....once the attitude changes - the behavior will change.
get creative, think back to when you were a teen.........
GOOD LUCK!Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
I believe it is attitude. Once the attitude gets adjusted, I think the behavior will followWhich should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Behavior, attitude will follow.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
The behavior ought to come first, I think. I have heard it said that %26quot;we can't think our way into right actions, but we can act our way into right thinking.%26quot;Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
I think sometimes that attitude affects behavior. If someone is in a good mood their behavior is also good? Does this help?Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
your attitude and your behavior will follow. Because you put goodness in you get goodness in return.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
I think it depends on the situation, in general, I'd have said the attitude because PERCEPTION pretty much rules the way we interact or respond to stimuli in the world.
However, take smoking. I stopped smoking but really felt resistant. I still did it because it was the right thing to do (this is over 10 years ago!) but my attitude wasn't %26quot;with it.%26quot; It took years to actually be a %26quot;happy ex-smoker%26quot; (one who feels sure she never wants to do it again).Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Change your attitude first,then your behavior will follow.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
behavior first...then attitude.
stop smoking so you don't pollute your body...then you can work on being %26quot;happy%26quot; about it.
stop punching people and you won't go to jail...then you can work on interpersonal relationships.
start treating your parents with respect...then they will learn to respect you...then you will develop self-respect.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
You could argue both points, I think. People might say that you can't change the output unless you change the reason behind that output, so you would have to address attitude first. I believe, and tend to practice, the idea that if you embrace a certain behaviour...your attitude can change along with it. For instance, I found myself a couple of years ago making rather stereotypical, generic comments of Hispanic people and I sounded racist. So, I signed up to help assist in an ESL class. My attitude didn't change overnight, but my behavior was different as I was interacting with Hispanics, and I never had before. And my attitude changed because of the behaviors that I adopted. If you have a teenager, they are old enough to understand that sometimes you have to act a certain way even if you feel like being another way (i.e. being polite to a rude teacher, not hitting a classmate, listening to poeple in authorative positions) and they should be able to adjust their behaviors and hopefully their attitude can change as well, and if it doesn't, at least they are behaving correctly. If you thye can't control their behaviors, despite their attitude, then you have bigger problems than just a rotten attitude. You have a teenager who won't listen to authority and can't except other points of view and who might have trouble adapting to society's expectations.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
behavior first! you must restore control and sanity...
... and yet attitude may be necessary to get anywhere at all so
do your best and work on both and try to get some outside help as well, AND
consider Alanon... it will transform your life and give you WHAT YOU NEED... give it a try and good luck
.
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/meetings/
.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Attitude determines behavior, so one must change the attitude first, and then behavior followsWhich should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Free your mind, and your @ss will follow. Attitude first, I think.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
He who seperates himself indulges his desires and shows contempt for sound advise of any kind. (Proverbs 18:1)
To act without knowing how you function is not good; and if you rush ahead you will miss your goal.(19:2)
A person is responsible to prepare his heart, but how the tongue speaks is from Adonai. (16:1)
Giving an honest answer is like giving a kiss.(24:26)
With patience a ruler can be won over, and a gentle tongue can break bones. (25:15)
Above everything else, guard your heart; for it is the source of life's consequences. Keep crooked speech out of your mouth, banish deciet from your lips. Let your eyes look straight ahead, fix your gaze on what lies in front of you. Level the path for your feet, let all your ways be properly prepared; tehn deviate neither right nor left; and keep your foot far from evil. (4:23-27)
I hope this helps. Your behavior is a reflection of your thoughts, and your thoughts are reflected by your behavior.
All the answers you need, are written in the book of life, and if you lean not on your own understanding, but on the word of God, your paths will be set straight before you. The best thing you can do for this troubled teen, is show by example.Which should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Almost all behavior is based on a belief system or attitude.
First,
(1)Perhaps you could consider changing your approach when dealing with the situation. Remember words have %26quot;energy%26quot; and if you tweak your approach a bit
and say that the two of you are attempting to solve a problem together.
(If this is a Parent/Child relationship I'm assuming you would both like to express love to each other more and have a peaceful relationship.)
(2) Base your problem solving on mutual respect.
You may want to consider changing your mind set when communicating with him/her
Your statement is , %26quot;I'm dealing with a teenager with problems%26quot;
Words have an energy
Try this idea %26quot;I'm dealing with a teenager who is discovering who they are, and I would like to help.%26quot;
I think that if you each sit down and write what your ideal outcome would be and then share it with each other. You can see what you have in common and I'll bet it is more similar than you may assume now.
(3) Look at how each of you can compromise and find a place to start.
(4)
Get human - tell him or her something real about you.
ie: your insecurity's , struggles and how you worked it out.
Ask them to share the same with you.
I also Highly suggest that you watch the %26quot;Secret%26quot; together - you can watch it online or buy a copy, borrow a copy.
here is a link to the site:
http://www.thesecret.tv/
Most of all be kindWhich should you change first to make you a better person, your attitude or your behavior? Why?
Either and both.
If you gave a hint of a clue as to what is going on, we might be able to make reasonable suggestions.
As others have said: behavior flows from attitude; and attitude flows from behavior.
People have been able to change their thinking, and find their behavior changes; and people have changed their behavior, and found their thinking changes.
The interaction between these, and the nature of change itself is anything BUT simple.
Short answer: change the one that seems changeble or that the person is willing to change.
I highly recommend you get yourself a copy of Virginia Axline's Play Therapy (the principles apply to older kids -- even if play isn't the main mode).
When you try to change someone, they tend to resist.
You're telling them that they are not acceptable as a human being the way they are.
They probably are the way they are because everyone in their lives has always been communicating this very message.
If you listen to the teen, and really grasp what they're saying, and why they feel as they do, and accept them for who they are, that can give them the emotional space to reexamine how they feel and act, and come to new ways of being on their own.
When you try to get them to change, it's just much less effective.
Uh, and, the situation is SO important -- knowing something about it would have been helpful.
If this person wants to change, that, too, would make a big difference in how to proceed.
But if they don't (you don't give a sex, and I hate writing filled with she/he all over the place), then they won't -- people can rarely be argued out of things they didn't reason their way to.
How does your behavior change if you find that you're now in the minority?
so you're pretty good, among your own types. you can talk a good game, among others who share your beliefs and status. you're a confident cat, preaching to the choir, until you step outside. now the tables have turned, and you're in the minority. your opinion is not shared by most, if any other people. odd duck out... so what do you do differently, if anything...?How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Well, the way you describe how it %26quot;feels%26quot; to be in your own group, confident cat %26amp; so on, I suspect that sort of person would have difficulty being in the minority. But that isn't true of everyone. I don't need my opinion to be %26quot;shared.%26quot; In fact, it's possible to get some good insights, new perspectives, from people who don't share my beliefs. If everyone agrees, there's not much, if anything, to learn--is there? My behaviour would not change, %26amp; I would not %26quot;do%26quot; anything differently, except that I would listen well.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
So I have noticed!
Thanks...
Enjoy it.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Malibu's Most WantedHow does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
when in Rome, do as the Romans. My white son could get no help although he was the top students of all his studies. He went to an all black college and finished his degree.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Always been a minority. Only 2 percent of the world's population is considered intelligent.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
why would it or why should it as long as you are a good person it should not matter if you are the only white,black,green with blue spots or gay.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
%26quot;staying alive%26quot; theme comes to mind. stealth, stay low and ease on down the road. the nail that sticks up gets hammered down. yeh, what you say is too true. so what a normal person does its easy on in the background. some nutjobs will jump right inthe middle like hercules or spartacus or shaka zulu. they all get killed, don't they? i just don't think like that. i just hear the song %26quot;staying alive%26quot; and ease on by.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Will be philosopherHow does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Been there, did that. US Air Force--people from all walks of life, equal opportunity employer all the way. Suddenly found myself switched into the minority but quick, in numerous assignments. I suppose I'm richer for it, but the experience was not fun! Didn't feel I could speak my mind, stayed quiet a lot. Felt I'd be slammed or killed if I complained of treatment received. Felt alone, isolated. No self esteem. Felt that only God was there for me, a lot. And good fortune to have God! How many, in that position, without God, suicide? A lot I think. I understand a lot more about a lot of people now. The isolation, the grief, the anger, the suicides, the horror of prejudice, racism, abuse, intolerance...How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
nothing dont pretend just be yourself if accepted it wiil be cause you were honest to yourself and they should respect you for itHow does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I am the minority so, my behavior is unchanging.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Try to learn from the situation and try to make the best of it. I don't think any of us really know everything about anything. The best thing to do is pull yourself out of your safety zone and learn to deal with different situations to make yourself a more well-rounded individual.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I have been in the minority many timesi n my life. I have never found a need for behavior change. I find that people are people. we all have different views, some of which are shared by others. There is no need to change ones self because someone else thinks differently from you.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I have never divided people into groups - to me their is no minority or majority we are all humans and should be treated the same when it comes to ethnic backgrounds I am blind. It isn't likely i will ever change for any reason.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I get quieter.
Well, the way you describe how it %26quot;feels%26quot; to be in your own group, confident cat %26amp; so on, I suspect that sort of person would have difficulty being in the minority. But that isn't true of everyone. I don't need my opinion to be %26quot;shared.%26quot; In fact, it's possible to get some good insights, new perspectives, from people who don't share my beliefs. If everyone agrees, there's not much, if anything, to learn--is there? My behaviour would not change, %26amp; I would not %26quot;do%26quot; anything differently, except that I would listen well.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
So I have noticed!
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How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?Enjoy it.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
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when in Rome, do as the Romans. My white son could get no help although he was the top students of all his studies. He went to an all black college and finished his degree.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Always been a minority. Only 2 percent of the world's population is considered intelligent.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
why would it or why should it as long as you are a good person it should not matter if you are the only white,black,green with blue spots or gay.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
%26quot;staying alive%26quot; theme comes to mind. stealth, stay low and ease on down the road. the nail that sticks up gets hammered down. yeh, what you say is too true. so what a normal person does its easy on in the background. some nutjobs will jump right inthe middle like hercules or spartacus or shaka zulu. they all get killed, don't they? i just don't think like that. i just hear the song %26quot;staying alive%26quot; and ease on by.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Will be philosopherHow does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Been there, did that. US Air Force--people from all walks of life, equal opportunity employer all the way. Suddenly found myself switched into the minority but quick, in numerous assignments. I suppose I'm richer for it, but the experience was not fun! Didn't feel I could speak my mind, stayed quiet a lot. Felt I'd be slammed or killed if I complained of treatment received. Felt alone, isolated. No self esteem. Felt that only God was there for me, a lot. And good fortune to have God! How many, in that position, without God, suicide? A lot I think. I understand a lot more about a lot of people now. The isolation, the grief, the anger, the suicides, the horror of prejudice, racism, abuse, intolerance...How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
nothing dont pretend just be yourself if accepted it wiil be cause you were honest to yourself and they should respect you for itHow does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I am the minority so, my behavior is unchanging.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
Try to learn from the situation and try to make the best of it. I don't think any of us really know everything about anything. The best thing to do is pull yourself out of your safety zone and learn to deal with different situations to make yourself a more well-rounded individual.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I have been in the minority many timesi n my life. I have never found a need for behavior change. I find that people are people. we all have different views, some of which are shared by others. There is no need to change ones self because someone else thinks differently from you.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I have never divided people into groups - to me their is no minority or majority we are all humans and should be treated the same when it comes to ethnic backgrounds I am blind. It isn't likely i will ever change for any reason.How does your behavior change if you find that you%26039;re now in the minority?
I get quieter.
How can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
The fourteen years old girl who is not listening, angry, stubborn, and not doing anything with strict rules also not doing any chores when I asked. Every time she get blow up angry and swearing. She always get into trouble. How can I change her to a better behavior? any ideas?How can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
Slap her. Then have an emotional hug with her, saying you did this because you love her.
But seriously beat some teenage age a*s. My mom still beats me LOOOL. even at 15 :(How can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
give her more time and importance. she will definitely listen you. if we can make a pet so close to us and listening us and doing as we want. why we cant make a person listen to us just we should love them more. some are really more demanding than others.
thank youHow can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
When my daughter was that age, it was a nightmare, stubborn, angry, she knows it all, and so on....
Really in force what you say, the big thing the counselor told me that I did wrong was FOLLOWING THROUGH WITH WHAT YOU SAY don't say you are grounded and then give up. You have to follow through whatever you say. Tell her she needs to get into something at school, sport or club the busier she is the less trouble she will get into.
At the end, my daughter is now 26 2 wonderful children and she is a nurse. Good girl,
Stay by what you say, give them chores, and make her do them and if not, take away phone, computer, what ever it takes and stand by it.....How can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
its a shame kids act such a way, and no offense to you but it is usually partly the parents fault for not enforcing respect.
middle class kids with monotonous (?) lives start to complain about such minute things like %26quot;omg like my mom is such a *****...she makes me do CHORES like wtf....she won't let me out on a friday like wtf!%26quot; lol.
really you need to expose them first hand the rest of the world. darfour, somalia, baghdad etc. I think the best way is to volunteer or get involved with people in a local city and show the poor parts of it. I had friends who lived downtown in a city, and they came from other countries, and when the kids in my school really found out about how he lived, that really put them into perspective.
Slap her. Then have an emotional hug with her, saying you did this because you love her.
But seriously beat some teenage age a*s. My mom still beats me LOOOL. even at 15 :(How can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
give her more time and importance. she will definitely listen you. if we can make a pet so close to us and listening us and doing as we want. why we cant make a person listen to us just we should love them more. some are really more demanding than others.
thank youHow can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
When my daughter was that age, it was a nightmare, stubborn, angry, she knows it all, and so on....
Really in force what you say, the big thing the counselor told me that I did wrong was FOLLOWING THROUGH WITH WHAT YOU SAY don't say you are grounded and then give up. You have to follow through whatever you say. Tell her she needs to get into something at school, sport or club the busier she is the less trouble she will get into.
At the end, my daughter is now 26 2 wonderful children and she is a nurse. Good girl,
Stay by what you say, give them chores, and make her do them and if not, take away phone, computer, what ever it takes and stand by it.....How can I do with a teenage girl who is awful bad behavior to change to a better behavior?
its a shame kids act such a way, and no offense to you but it is usually partly the parents fault for not enforcing respect.
middle class kids with monotonous (?) lives start to complain about such minute things like %26quot;omg like my mom is such a *****...she makes me do CHORES like wtf....she won't let me out on a friday like wtf!%26quot; lol.
really you need to expose them first hand the rest of the world. darfour, somalia, baghdad etc. I think the best way is to volunteer or get involved with people in a local city and show the poor parts of it. I had friends who lived downtown in a city, and they came from other countries, and when the kids in my school really found out about how he lived, that really put them into perspective.
How to change behaviour patterns?
my mum has always run hot and cold - she'll be overly affectionate one minute and the next she'll be really cold and sulking and not speaking to anyone. Sometimes it's because I haven't reciprocated in the way she anticipated but I'm relatively perceptive particularly where my mum is concerned, and sometimes I have absolutely no idea why the change occurs. She's not being manipulative, it's to do with emotions and insecurities I think. But it's like walking on egg-shells with her and sometimes it gets so bad I just wish I never had to deal with it again.
What really concerns me is that looking back over the last 6 months I can see that I've been acting like this towards my (then) long distance boyfriend. There were difficulties in the relationship, but I can so see why he wanted to walk away if I was so eratic.
The question is, can you unlearn learned behaviours? I'm assuming I learned this from my mum. And how to stop doing it in the future? Is being aware of it enough?How to change behaviour patterns?
she sounds manic or bipolar... and yes, you can change, but will need to remove yourself from the situation.. and have some personal therapy to get where you ant to be.....
What really concerns me is that looking back over the last 6 months I can see that I've been acting like this towards my (then) long distance boyfriend. There were difficulties in the relationship, but I can so see why he wanted to walk away if I was so eratic.
The question is, can you unlearn learned behaviours? I'm assuming I learned this from my mum. And how to stop doing it in the future? Is being aware of it enough?How to change behaviour patterns?
she sounds manic or bipolar... and yes, you can change, but will need to remove yourself from the situation.. and have some personal therapy to get where you ant to be.....
I don't understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
It is my first year of college and I met this guy who lives on my floor. He really liked me, but I told him I wasn't just ready to be in any sort of relationship yet and that I had just come out of a bad one. He in response told me that it was fine and he understood if thats how I felt because of a bad relationship. However, many times he told me I always made him smile and he would say why do you always make me smile. He said I was very pretty, he said he thought I was on the same level as Jessica Alba. He said he thought I was the perfect woman and that the only thing he would probably change about me is that I wasn't that active or into sports. I had told him a couple times that he shouldn't just wait on me and look around and see what else is out there, but he absolutely refused to and said he didn't want to. He has also told me he wants the sort of relationship that you can look back on and tell your grandkids about and he is against divorce and how you don't see that that much in our generation. A lot of people on our floor have started dating and it has only been a couple weeks into the school year and he said that he thought their relationships would end fast, but if we were in one ours would last. In addition to saying he would wait for me, he said he wouldn't date anyone till his junior year. Also, I love chicken selects and one day he randomly showed up at my door and had bought them for me.
Well this week he started behaving differently. The first thing that was different was one night his behavior changed and he was very rude to me. I asked him if he would still date me if I looked completely different and he said no and that he only liked me because of how I looked although before he had said he liked my personality. Then he was like why does it bother you and I said because honestly that is kind of shallow. Then he said maybe we shouldn't hang out anymore to which I responded about his whole idea about wanting a relationship he could look back and tell his kids about and he just said people change. The next morning he was back to normal and apologized. Then he was talking to me less and didn't text me as much. Today he texted me asking me if I would be upset if he had gf. I said no, but I would be upset if he had had a gf all along and liked me, but then again that was not my place to be upset, so I couldn't really be upset by it. He then said that he kinda had one and I asked him why he didn't tell me sooner and he said that it had kind of just happened today and said how sooner should i have told u. I told him that that was fine but it some of things he had told me before were contradictory and now I questioned his integrity, character and trust. He said that I had said to look around and that he wanted a relationship and I didnt and I just told him that was true, but now i just questioned the validity of some of his statements and that it made me lose my trust, but it didn't matter anymore. Then he said I hope i didn't hurt your feelings and asked if we could be friends and i just said yeah it doesn't really change anything.
Anyways, now I'm upset, I find everything he said to me almost as if it was a lie. It turns out the girl he is dating is muslim and so I doubt their relationship will last long just because I have friends that are muslim and they are not really allowed to date. It just makes everything he said so contradictory because everything with this girl just happened this week. I just feel bad because he was so absolutly hung up on me that I felt guilty even wanting to go and meet other guys when he was ready to wait for me for two years. I mean he just changed completely and I dont understand how it happened. I am very tempted to tell him straight out how i feel he is contradictory and does not have integrity or character. Also now he seems to try and go against a lot of the things i am saying. He seems to be acting almost as if he is cocky. I just don't get it and don't know how to behave in response to his behavior.
I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
He is fickle - he wasn't getting the enthusiasm from you he wanted and found it elsewhere. He will be back but don;t have him as more than a friend as he has shown you what sort of person he is.Do not trust him.I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
Be straightforward with him - tell him that you feel betrayed, not because he's seeing someone, but because he lied to you... and unnecessarily at that. You trusted him and he hurt you - say your piece and move on. I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
It could COULD be the possibilty that maybe he wants you to feel that way. Maybe he wants you to feel bad or make you jealous. Im not sure. Just a thought.I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
the first person that answered ur question is lazy lol
the guy is not worth it
i think he told u all that stuff just so he could sleep with u or somethin
wow they have spell check on here now lol
anyway find a new guy when ur ready take ur time and dont let anyone pressure u
good lukI don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
Well if you think about it with him waiting for you...you have been in control. So he sounds like hes asserting himself now, challenging you and your ideas, maybe trying to make yourself a little jealous and also he has needs too. Its hard to wait for someone when nothing is happening, its not like you two were dating, just friends. If him back tracking alot of what he says puts distrust in your heart and questioning his integrity then call him on it, be open and honest and demand the same of him if your such good friends. If hes mature enough he will have no problem talking about it but my guess is he will be defensive, skirt around the issue and argue, thats boys, thats guys with other motives and he is probably just tired of waiting, again hes got needs too. Good luck and move on~I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
before u look to his behavior...let's think about how you're feeling now...
You're hurt because you were very flattered by what he said and now that he has another g/f(and so fast)it hurts you because you feel that you are not quite as special as he made you out to be because he was not willing to wait for you. don't let anyone do that to you...you are the same person you were two weeks ago and that was special so know you are still special.
I think you were starting to believe that he was a nice guy and your thoughts of him were becoming romantic in nature
%26quot; I just feel bad because he was so absolutly hung up on me that I felt guilty even wanting to go and meet other guys when he was ready to wait for me for two years. I mean he just changed completely and I dont understand how it happened.%26quot;
This shows that you are disappointed that he did not follow thru on his words. don't be disappointed, you can still have a great friendship if you and him can really be platonic in your relationship but i don't think that will happen(or at least not easily) now that you've both had romantic visions of each other.
He probably was trying to hook up with you and still have another girl...which means he's bad news anyways or
He liked you but not enough to wait for you(and you did test his devotion by telling him not to wait for you) which means he couldn't have been in love with you...OR
He was/is trying to make you jealous and see him as boyfriend material.
should you forgive and forget? life's short and we usually need all the friends we can get...call a truce..talk to him about how he made you feel and go from there.
Just remember use words like
I felt very(blank) when (blank) happened..example- I was very hurt when suddenly another girl was in the picture.(remember to use %26quot;I%26quot; words not %26quot;YOU%26quot; words)
i think i would like to know where we stand
i would like to see this(blank) happen....
i understood it to mean(blank)....
good luck hope it works out wellmyspace pictures brown hair
Well this week he started behaving differently. The first thing that was different was one night his behavior changed and he was very rude to me. I asked him if he would still date me if I looked completely different and he said no and that he only liked me because of how I looked although before he had said he liked my personality. Then he was like why does it bother you and I said because honestly that is kind of shallow. Then he said maybe we shouldn't hang out anymore to which I responded about his whole idea about wanting a relationship he could look back and tell his kids about and he just said people change. The next morning he was back to normal and apologized. Then he was talking to me less and didn't text me as much. Today he texted me asking me if I would be upset if he had gf. I said no, but I would be upset if he had had a gf all along and liked me, but then again that was not my place to be upset, so I couldn't really be upset by it. He then said that he kinda had one and I asked him why he didn't tell me sooner and he said that it had kind of just happened today and said how sooner should i have told u. I told him that that was fine but it some of things he had told me before were contradictory and now I questioned his integrity, character and trust. He said that I had said to look around and that he wanted a relationship and I didnt and I just told him that was true, but now i just questioned the validity of some of his statements and that it made me lose my trust, but it didn't matter anymore. Then he said I hope i didn't hurt your feelings and asked if we could be friends and i just said yeah it doesn't really change anything.
Anyways, now I'm upset, I find everything he said to me almost as if it was a lie. It turns out the girl he is dating is muslim and so I doubt their relationship will last long just because I have friends that are muslim and they are not really allowed to date. It just makes everything he said so contradictory because everything with this girl just happened this week. I just feel bad because he was so absolutly hung up on me that I felt guilty even wanting to go and meet other guys when he was ready to wait for me for two years. I mean he just changed completely and I dont understand how it happened. I am very tempted to tell him straight out how i feel he is contradictory and does not have integrity or character. Also now he seems to try and go against a lot of the things i am saying. He seems to be acting almost as if he is cocky. I just don't get it and don't know how to behave in response to his behavior.
I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
He is fickle - he wasn't getting the enthusiasm from you he wanted and found it elsewhere. He will be back but don;t have him as more than a friend as he has shown you what sort of person he is.Do not trust him.I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
Be straightforward with him - tell him that you feel betrayed, not because he's seeing someone, but because he lied to you... and unnecessarily at that. You trusted him and he hurt you - say your piece and move on. I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
It could COULD be the possibilty that maybe he wants you to feel that way. Maybe he wants you to feel bad or make you jealous. Im not sure. Just a thought.I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
the first person that answered ur question is lazy lol
the guy is not worth it
i think he told u all that stuff just so he could sleep with u or somethin
wow they have spell check on here now lol
anyway find a new guy when ur ready take ur time and dont let anyone pressure u
good lukI don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
Well if you think about it with him waiting for you...you have been in control. So he sounds like hes asserting himself now, challenging you and your ideas, maybe trying to make yourself a little jealous and also he has needs too. Its hard to wait for someone when nothing is happening, its not like you two were dating, just friends. If him back tracking alot of what he says puts distrust in your heart and questioning his integrity then call him on it, be open and honest and demand the same of him if your such good friends. If hes mature enough he will have no problem talking about it but my guess is he will be defensive, skirt around the issue and argue, thats boys, thats guys with other motives and he is probably just tired of waiting, again hes got needs too. Good luck and move on~I don%26039;t understand his sudden change in behavior, what happened? Please read, you may skim if you like?
before u look to his behavior...let's think about how you're feeling now...
You're hurt because you were very flattered by what he said and now that he has another g/f(and so fast)it hurts you because you feel that you are not quite as special as he made you out to be because he was not willing to wait for you. don't let anyone do that to you...you are the same person you were two weeks ago and that was special so know you are still special.
I think you were starting to believe that he was a nice guy and your thoughts of him were becoming romantic in nature
%26quot; I just feel bad because he was so absolutly hung up on me that I felt guilty even wanting to go and meet other guys when he was ready to wait for me for two years. I mean he just changed completely and I dont understand how it happened.%26quot;
This shows that you are disappointed that he did not follow thru on his words. don't be disappointed, you can still have a great friendship if you and him can really be platonic in your relationship but i don't think that will happen(or at least not easily) now that you've both had romantic visions of each other.
He probably was trying to hook up with you and still have another girl...which means he's bad news anyways or
He liked you but not enough to wait for you(and you did test his devotion by telling him not to wait for you) which means he couldn't have been in love with you...OR
He was/is trying to make you jealous and see him as boyfriend material.
should you forgive and forget? life's short and we usually need all the friends we can get...call a truce..talk to him about how he made you feel and go from there.
Just remember use words like
I felt very(blank) when (blank) happened..example- I was very hurt when suddenly another girl was in the picture.(remember to use %26quot;I%26quot; words not %26quot;YOU%26quot; words)
i think i would like to know where we stand
i would like to see this(blank) happen....
i understood it to mean(blank)....
good luck hope it works out well
Will my dog's behavior change after he gets neutered?
My puppy, a black lab JUST over a year, is scheduled to get his nuts chopped in June. My mom figured it would be a good idea because he's a very high jumper, and she worried that he might leap over the fence to try and get to the female dogs in heat. My dog, though, is my best pal, and I love so much because of his sporadic and spasmodic behavior. My only worry is how his behavior might change once he's neutered. What type of behavioral changes will happen to dogs once they're neutered? I don't want to leave my spas just yet.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
He will be more reliable as in letting him off-leash he is less likely to wander/run away.
It may lessen any aggression toward other dogs. But that would be minimal if that is a problem anyways.
Other than that, there really is no immediate change.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
yes. dogs gut much better after they are spayed/neuteredWill my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
From personal experience, it will in some cases help, but puppies can still be very active/hyper even after getting fixed.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
Do not fear, the change isn't drastic. Your dog WILL calm down and won;t be so.... easily excited but if he is a spaz, than his personality shall remain generally the same. However, remember he is a puppy and so age will cause him to calm down as well. He may not always be such a spaz, sadly.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
With my lab you'd never know the difference. He acts just like he did before, except he doesn't spaz out and try to wander when the ***** down the street in heat.
He'll be a bit out of sorts for a few days, but that's to be expected after being put under.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
I think your dog will be a much happier dog when he is neutered.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
yes but only in good ways, and by that i mean no humpy humps... but personally my dog was still just as active and kind of odd and just so you know if he still humps that's normal its a dominance thing, my dog actually got cooler after his nut chop. but all in all your mom is right get him neutered good for you and him in the long run:)Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
His behavior may seem weird at first but he is verry likely to be back 2 normal afteer the first 2 weeksWill my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
I wondered the same thing. I have a Labrador as well. He was seven months old when I got him fixed. Usually, they eat a LOT more after they have been %26quot;fixed%26quot; but, my dog really hasn't changed at all. He's still the same loveable puppy as before.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
Your mom is right. He will be much more relaxed and well behaved if you get him neutered. Males get crazy when they need to mate. If he smells a femail in heat he could just take off and you wont see him again.
dont worry abou the proceedure - it's much easier on males then females.............. i have 3 dogs, they all got fixed and they are just amazing, they're happy and worry free..
so bottom line - go for it!Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
they become more mellow.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
USUALLY the only thing that may change is the DANGER of him following his wild instinct to leave home and chase female dogs. Sometimes in neutering people find the dog becomes a little more placid. But I don't think you have anything to worry about. Your dogs %26quot;play%26quot; behavior should not be affected in anyway. If you had surgery you would still be 'You.' The only limitations will be the short time of recovery after the surgery and his %26quot;trying%26quot; moments AWAY from you that he will not understand. Its HARD...but its what you must do. Actually the surgery is EQUALLY important to your dear pet because of the threat and HIGH incidence of cancer in un-neutered males. I cannot remember the percentage my vet told me, but it is VERY HIGH probability that a dog over the age of 3 years WILL develop prostrate cancer. I guess its a sign of our times!
I lost a dear friend of six years who wasn't neutered to this devastating cancer. I will always NOW make sure my pets are fixed.
Blessings,
Bunny7
He will be more reliable as in letting him off-leash he is less likely to wander/run away.
It may lessen any aggression toward other dogs. But that would be minimal if that is a problem anyways.
Other than that, there really is no immediate change.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
yes. dogs gut much better after they are spayed/neuteredWill my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
From personal experience, it will in some cases help, but puppies can still be very active/hyper even after getting fixed.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
Do not fear, the change isn't drastic. Your dog WILL calm down and won;t be so.... easily excited but if he is a spaz, than his personality shall remain generally the same. However, remember he is a puppy and so age will cause him to calm down as well. He may not always be such a spaz, sadly.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
With my lab you'd never know the difference. He acts just like he did before, except he doesn't spaz out and try to wander when the ***** down the street in heat.
He'll be a bit out of sorts for a few days, but that's to be expected after being put under.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
I think your dog will be a much happier dog when he is neutered.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
yes but only in good ways, and by that i mean no humpy humps... but personally my dog was still just as active and kind of odd and just so you know if he still humps that's normal its a dominance thing, my dog actually got cooler after his nut chop. but all in all your mom is right get him neutered good for you and him in the long run:)Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
His behavior may seem weird at first but he is verry likely to be back 2 normal afteer the first 2 weeksWill my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
I wondered the same thing. I have a Labrador as well. He was seven months old when I got him fixed. Usually, they eat a LOT more after they have been %26quot;fixed%26quot; but, my dog really hasn't changed at all. He's still the same loveable puppy as before.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
Your mom is right. He will be much more relaxed and well behaved if you get him neutered. Males get crazy when they need to mate. If he smells a femail in heat he could just take off and you wont see him again.
dont worry abou the proceedure - it's much easier on males then females.............. i have 3 dogs, they all got fixed and they are just amazing, they're happy and worry free..
so bottom line - go for it!Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
they become more mellow.Will my dog%26039;s behavior change after he gets neutered?
USUALLY the only thing that may change is the DANGER of him following his wild instinct to leave home and chase female dogs. Sometimes in neutering people find the dog becomes a little more placid. But I don't think you have anything to worry about. Your dogs %26quot;play%26quot; behavior should not be affected in anyway. If you had surgery you would still be 'You.' The only limitations will be the short time of recovery after the surgery and his %26quot;trying%26quot; moments AWAY from you that he will not understand. Its HARD...but its what you must do. Actually the surgery is EQUALLY important to your dear pet because of the threat and HIGH incidence of cancer in un-neutered males. I cannot remember the percentage my vet told me, but it is VERY HIGH probability that a dog over the age of 3 years WILL develop prostrate cancer. I guess its a sign of our times!
I lost a dear friend of six years who wasn't neutered to this devastating cancer. I will always NOW make sure my pets are fixed.
Blessings,
Bunny7
How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
I have a bully in my GS troop who only does her bullying away from adults...she knows I, the leader, am the mom of one of the troop members so she never does it at troop events, but last week she made my daughter cry denying a group of friends (also in troop) to include my daughter in playing. She does this to my daughter and other troop members often. Under GS guidelines, can I give her and parent warning to change behavior or not be invited back to the troop next year and that her status is conditional upon her good behavior which should follow the GS Law?How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Wow, you've got an interesting situation, and you have gotten a LOT of really good advice here. Try as many of these ideas as you see that fit your situation, but remember, you are a volunteer, and you are doing this mainly for your daughter. I removed a girl from my troop after years of disrupting our troop, and she was placed in another troop and that leader was just the ticket for handling her. Perhaps, this might be a suggestion for you. Is it possible to find another troop for this bully, and ask the other leader to take her?
Also, do your best to keep clicques from forming. If you are Brownies, try using rings, if you are older, use the patrol system and carefully choose who is in what patrol. Good Luck, and don't quit.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
well i dont know much about gril scot but i want to be one but that not the point you got to belive in your self to defend your self and if that dont work then tell who ever is in charge or who is in you group that is in chargeHow to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Yes, give her and parents a warning first, and if it repeats, boot her out!How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Sometimes bullies just have to be dealt with by their victims.
They should be encouraged to stand up to her, all together.
It's still possible that this bully could be %26quot;turned%26quot; if it's made clear to her where she is in the pecking order. This is a dominance thing.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
I think you talk to her parents first. If anybody needed to learn about the girl scout way of promoting %26quot;girl power%26quot; it is this girl. She needs the girl scouts. I think it would look suspicious if you kicked her out because it looks like you are favoring your daughter. I understand this would be frustrating for you, plus you are putting in the time as a leader, but as a leader I think you need to be inclusive and find a way to get that bully kid on a better track. Good luck!How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
If you're a good scout, you'll let the troop leader be the %26quot;bad guy%26quot; and remove the bully. She's the only one who can remove a person anyway.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
well, dont ask meHow to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
I don't know anything about Girl Scout guidelines, but perhaps you could evaluate this young lady a bit further.
She may be acting out in such a negative way because she has a very large insecurity. You could find a way to make her overcome whatever this insecurity is and help her.
Maybe this GS troop is the only thing that she has ever had that has given her a chance.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Is there another leader or representative who can speak to the parent(s) about it? It might be best if you remove yourself from this discipline issue as you may be seen as biased because the bully is picking on your child. Whatever you do, do not allow your personal feelings to alter your treatment of the bully or her parents. It will lead to disaster.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
My Mom was the troop leader of my troop back in the day--so two thumbs up to you!!!
I think if this girl is bullying your daughter and others away from troop functions than you really cant expel her from the troop--But on the other hand you need to advise your daughter to pull her friends together and confront the girl and inform the bully that they are not going to associate with her outside the troop..that they don't appreciate her ways and she needs to stop behaving badly OR sooner or later she will have no friends at all --in the troop or out..
If she is so hateful then also tell your daughter to just walk away from her when she comes around--at school? and the girl follows? your daughter needs to notify a teacher or yard attendant that she is being harassed..Kids don't like being excused from a group--maybe if the bully is ignored long enough she will get the hint and blend NOT bend the rules..
If your daughter doesn't get help from the staff at school tell her to call you --you need to maybe step in--let other parents also know of this child's bad behavior so they too can back it up..Hug your daughter for me and tell her there are people that care!! :-)How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
you said that she does NOT do it at troop events....i don't know if that would fall into the guidelines for suspension.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Bullies operate from fear...I'd hate to see her get the boot from the troup--ahev you maybe considered getting the girls together..and they each one take turns telling what this girl had done to them-and how it made her feel...and when all of the girls has had the chance to speak..tell the bullying girl-that she doesn't have to act that way...that no one in the troup is out to hurt her..they just want her to be one with them..and maybe then have each girl say something that they like about the girl..to end it on a positive note. Bullies aren't happy people..sometimes they come from a place of feeling less than..so they put on a big front...there are a lot of reasons why people become bullies...I'm concerned that this might be a missed opportunity to make a big change in her life...How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
You did not mention how old the girls are, but I am a Brownie troop leader, so I will have an idea about what you're going through. I would do a unit on bullies, there is a book by Wiseman that the movie Mean Girls was based on. The author has been a speaker at Girl Scout events, so she would definitely be a person the Girl Scouts will endorse. If the girls are old enough to see Mean Girls, watch it at a Girl Scout meeting, and then discuss it. If the girls are too young, then read the book yourself, and work on your own %26quot;Bully Program%26quot; to do at one of your meetings. Don't single anyone out, but the book has many roles that girls fill in cliques. You can have each girl write down what role they think they fill, and openly discuss the different roles. Brainstorm on some solutions to dealing with Bullies, and how to %26quot;back out%26quot; of unpleasant situations, without losing their status in the clique. And, do a lesson about the Girl Scout Law, especially about being a sister to every girl scout. Have the girls define what that part means. Okay, I gave you a lot to do. Good luck!How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
remind her of the morals of girl scouts and warn her that since there is no such thing as a mean girl scout, she cannot be a girl scout anymore if she doesnt stop. if teh problem persists, tell her she cant continue with your troop. im not a leader, but my dad married my former GS leader, and im still a scout. i would be chrushed if i couldnt be in scouts anymore.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
IF you truly believe this girl is a bully,why put your daughter thru this??
Bullying is now a big initiative thruout the school community. At our school, they told us of how it affects you into your adulthood. I had a bully bothering my son at school and went to the teacher and every time I saw the boy, I looked him squarely in the eye. That action alone made him uncomfortable and he knew I was watching him. I also taught my son to tell him to leave him alone 1 time, aFTER that, tell the teacher. DONT PUT UP WITH IT.
Since this isnt school, i would give the child one verbal warning w/ another adult present and send home a note. IF it happens again, I would dismiss the child from the troop.
I say ZERO TOLERANCE.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
I am a troop leader also, I don't have a bully but I have one that refuses to listen. You need to talk to her parents and to the council in your area. The council will support you, because with out us there are no troops. You need to explain to the girl and her parents that she is not just a girl scout at troop meetings, but all the time. The last line in the law is %26quot;to be a sister to every girl scout%26quot; the way she is behaving goes against the law and the promise.
Since it's almost the end of the year I would just tell her parents that you won't tollerate that kind of behavior in your troop, and if she doesn't stop you won't allow her to come to anymore meetings. But before you do that go to the council, I don't know about yours but, my council is really good helping with this kind of situation.
Good Luck.
Wow, you've got an interesting situation, and you have gotten a LOT of really good advice here. Try as many of these ideas as you see that fit your situation, but remember, you are a volunteer, and you are doing this mainly for your daughter. I removed a girl from my troop after years of disrupting our troop, and she was placed in another troop and that leader was just the ticket for handling her. Perhaps, this might be a suggestion for you. Is it possible to find another troop for this bully, and ask the other leader to take her?
Also, do your best to keep clicques from forming. If you are Brownies, try using rings, if you are older, use the patrol system and carefully choose who is in what patrol. Good Luck, and don't quit.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
well i dont know much about gril scot but i want to be one but that not the point you got to belive in your self to defend your self and if that dont work then tell who ever is in charge or who is in you group that is in chargeHow to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Yes, give her and parents a warning first, and if it repeats, boot her out!How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Sometimes bullies just have to be dealt with by their victims.
They should be encouraged to stand up to her, all together.
It's still possible that this bully could be %26quot;turned%26quot; if it's made clear to her where she is in the pecking order. This is a dominance thing.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
I think you talk to her parents first. If anybody needed to learn about the girl scout way of promoting %26quot;girl power%26quot; it is this girl. She needs the girl scouts. I think it would look suspicious if you kicked her out because it looks like you are favoring your daughter. I understand this would be frustrating for you, plus you are putting in the time as a leader, but as a leader I think you need to be inclusive and find a way to get that bully kid on a better track. Good luck!How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
If you're a good scout, you'll let the troop leader be the %26quot;bad guy%26quot; and remove the bully. She's the only one who can remove a person anyway.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
well, dont ask meHow to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
I don't know anything about Girl Scout guidelines, but perhaps you could evaluate this young lady a bit further.
She may be acting out in such a negative way because she has a very large insecurity. You could find a way to make her overcome whatever this insecurity is and help her.
Maybe this GS troop is the only thing that she has ever had that has given her a chance.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Is there another leader or representative who can speak to the parent(s) about it? It might be best if you remove yourself from this discipline issue as you may be seen as biased because the bully is picking on your child. Whatever you do, do not allow your personal feelings to alter your treatment of the bully or her parents. It will lead to disaster.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
My Mom was the troop leader of my troop back in the day--so two thumbs up to you!!!
I think if this girl is bullying your daughter and others away from troop functions than you really cant expel her from the troop--But on the other hand you need to advise your daughter to pull her friends together and confront the girl and inform the bully that they are not going to associate with her outside the troop..that they don't appreciate her ways and she needs to stop behaving badly OR sooner or later she will have no friends at all --in the troop or out..
If she is so hateful then also tell your daughter to just walk away from her when she comes around--at school? and the girl follows? your daughter needs to notify a teacher or yard attendant that she is being harassed..Kids don't like being excused from a group--maybe if the bully is ignored long enough she will get the hint and blend NOT bend the rules..
If your daughter doesn't get help from the staff at school tell her to call you --you need to maybe step in--let other parents also know of this child's bad behavior so they too can back it up..Hug your daughter for me and tell her there are people that care!! :-)How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
you said that she does NOT do it at troop events....i don't know if that would fall into the guidelines for suspension.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
Bullies operate from fear...I'd hate to see her get the boot from the troup--ahev you maybe considered getting the girls together..and they each one take turns telling what this girl had done to them-and how it made her feel...and when all of the girls has had the chance to speak..tell the bullying girl-that she doesn't have to act that way...that no one in the troup is out to hurt her..they just want her to be one with them..and maybe then have each girl say something that they like about the girl..to end it on a positive note. Bullies aren't happy people..sometimes they come from a place of feeling less than..so they put on a big front...there are a lot of reasons why people become bullies...I'm concerned that this might be a missed opportunity to make a big change in her life...How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
You did not mention how old the girls are, but I am a Brownie troop leader, so I will have an idea about what you're going through. I would do a unit on bullies, there is a book by Wiseman that the movie Mean Girls was based on. The author has been a speaker at Girl Scout events, so she would definitely be a person the Girl Scouts will endorse. If the girls are old enough to see Mean Girls, watch it at a Girl Scout meeting, and then discuss it. If the girls are too young, then read the book yourself, and work on your own %26quot;Bully Program%26quot; to do at one of your meetings. Don't single anyone out, but the book has many roles that girls fill in cliques. You can have each girl write down what role they think they fill, and openly discuss the different roles. Brainstorm on some solutions to dealing with Bullies, and how to %26quot;back out%26quot; of unpleasant situations, without losing their status in the clique. And, do a lesson about the Girl Scout Law, especially about being a sister to every girl scout. Have the girls define what that part means. Okay, I gave you a lot to do. Good luck!How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
remind her of the morals of girl scouts and warn her that since there is no such thing as a mean girl scout, she cannot be a girl scout anymore if she doesnt stop. if teh problem persists, tell her she cant continue with your troop. im not a leader, but my dad married my former GS leader, and im still a scout. i would be chrushed if i couldnt be in scouts anymore.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
IF you truly believe this girl is a bully,why put your daughter thru this??
Bullying is now a big initiative thruout the school community. At our school, they told us of how it affects you into your adulthood. I had a bully bothering my son at school and went to the teacher and every time I saw the boy, I looked him squarely in the eye. That action alone made him uncomfortable and he knew I was watching him. I also taught my son to tell him to leave him alone 1 time, aFTER that, tell the teacher. DONT PUT UP WITH IT.
Since this isnt school, i would give the child one verbal warning w/ another adult present and send home a note. IF it happens again, I would dismiss the child from the troop.
I say ZERO TOLERANCE.How to you remove a bully from your Girl Scout Troop?
I am a troop leader also, I don't have a bully but I have one that refuses to listen. You need to talk to her parents and to the council in your area. The council will support you, because with out us there are no troops. You need to explain to the girl and her parents that she is not just a girl scout at troop meetings, but all the time. The last line in the law is %26quot;to be a sister to every girl scout%26quot; the way she is behaving goes against the law and the promise.
Since it's almost the end of the year I would just tell her parents that you won't tollerate that kind of behavior in your troop, and if she doesn't stop you won't allow her to come to anymore meetings. But before you do that go to the council, I don't know about yours but, my council is really good helping with this kind of situation.
Good Luck.
How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
If you need to fart, you fart. If you are in a situation where you can excuse yourself to another room, or the bathroom, I do that. I go into another room or in a corner by myself and let one go, then go back to what I was doing. If I'm stuck farting in a group of people then damn it, I just do it, and excuse myself. Sometimes, I even say %26quot;excuse me%26quot; when I'm home alone tooting. ;) You needn't be ashamed about it, but don't sit there rippin' them like a chain farter without saying %26quot;excuse me!%26quot;How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Around others, I keep it in. When I am alone I let em rip.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Depends on whether I have mixed beans with meat or not or cabbage or brussel sprouts with fat.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
idc either way if im alone or not i fart. old prophet %26quot; better to bear the shame than to bear the pain%26quot;How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
You must become one with your fart.
-Master Joo Kim LongHow does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
As my father used to say, %26quot;You can't hold what you don't have in your hand%26quot;.
Hope this helps.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
I fart when I need to. If someone doesn't like that I have a PERFECTLY NORMAL human bodily function they need a reality check.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
If being %26quot;true to yourself%26quot; is affected by your farting behavior, you don't have much going for you, do you? I would hope you have other ways of defining %26quot;yourself%26quot;How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
most definitely
but i havent done publicly or otherwise for a long time
(lying the teeth)
lmao
:)How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
If I am arround people then I try to either move away before I let it go or I do my best to keep it silent so that no one will find out ie was me who cut the cheese. When I am alone I tend to not care how loud or how stinky.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
when you can control your fart squeeze your muscles and you fart quiet or don't bother it will dissapear thru you stomach rumbling like french evolution warif you vegan it'is no stink when you eat meat it stinks like rotten eggsHow does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
i just cant stand a nasty a.ss son of a ******. why would you want to go around shi.tting your pants around decent people, have you no decency govern your a.ss when you are in public and respect other peoples breathing space.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Well since I have some manners left I usually don't fart around anyone unless I am sleeping then anything goes or so I am told.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Well... At last! An intellectual with reasonably high standards...! You know the code... It's just good manners not to get audible in the other gender's company... If they're family, well, they already know... That is all...How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
It's ideal to keep it in around when other people are around but whats funny is wait till you get older and bend over and can't hold it in LOL I was in a store one day and this older gentlemen bent over to pick something up from the lower shelve and he RIPPED ONE LMAO he looked at me and said don't you laugh it will happen to you when you get my age LOL. I said I just hope they raise that shelve by then LOL (he laughed)How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Of course it is different and can be compared to booger pick'n. When there are otheres around you don't just cram your finger up your nose and pick away. You try to sneak it in and twist it a coupel of times to get the little devil loosened up, and then at the last minute you may have to extend the time a little to actually break it loose from the nose hairs.
When FARTING, it too is a sneak method if people are present. Rarely do you just rip one off in the presence of people unless it is an accident, and then you blame it on your pet frog or a squeeky board in the floor. Or in my case the dog. I have people believing that my dog has the smelliest farts in the world. That way I can always blame him. He even has a reputation about farting that is the conversation at many parties. It always give me a feeling of guilt, mixed with laughter and pride, when I hear them talking, knowing full well it is my farts they are talking about. Other people have identity crisis. In other words their farts are all familiar in smell, and you always know who done it. I think my way is the smartest.
With boogers you nearly always get away with it unless you have an exceptional sticky one. In that case it is getting rid of it after the fact that is the dead give away. When you see some one with their hand out of the car window making small circles with their thumb and first finger that is a dead give away. If you watch long enough they will try to shake if off and it will not part from them. This action takes way too much time to be sly about it and someone is bound to see you in action. When they do it's a bust. Now on the other hand if the dog happens to be outside on the leash it is hard to blame him for the fart so you are busted for that too. It's a bad day!
Around others, I keep it in. When I am alone I let em rip.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Depends on whether I have mixed beans with meat or not or cabbage or brussel sprouts with fat.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
idc either way if im alone or not i fart. old prophet %26quot; better to bear the shame than to bear the pain%26quot;How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
You must become one with your fart.
-Master Joo Kim LongHow does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
As my father used to say, %26quot;You can't hold what you don't have in your hand%26quot;.
Hope this helps.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
I fart when I need to. If someone doesn't like that I have a PERFECTLY NORMAL human bodily function they need a reality check.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
If being %26quot;true to yourself%26quot; is affected by your farting behavior, you don't have much going for you, do you? I would hope you have other ways of defining %26quot;yourself%26quot;How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
most definitely
but i havent done publicly or otherwise for a long time
(lying the teeth)
lmao
:)How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
If I am arround people then I try to either move away before I let it go or I do my best to keep it silent so that no one will find out ie was me who cut the cheese. When I am alone I tend to not care how loud or how stinky.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
when you can control your fart squeeze your muscles and you fart quiet or don't bother it will dissapear thru you stomach rumbling like french evolution warif you vegan it'is no stink when you eat meat it stinks like rotten eggsHow does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
i just cant stand a nasty a.ss son of a ******. why would you want to go around shi.tting your pants around decent people, have you no decency govern your a.ss when you are in public and respect other peoples breathing space.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Well since I have some manners left I usually don't fart around anyone unless I am sleeping then anything goes or so I am told.How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Well... At last! An intellectual with reasonably high standards...! You know the code... It's just good manners not to get audible in the other gender's company... If they're family, well, they already know... That is all...How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
It's ideal to keep it in around when other people are around but whats funny is wait till you get older and bend over and can't hold it in LOL I was in a store one day and this older gentlemen bent over to pick something up from the lower shelve and he RIPPED ONE LMAO he looked at me and said don't you laugh it will happen to you when you get my age LOL. I said I just hope they raise that shelve by then LOL (he laughed)How does your farting behavior change if there are people around? are you being true to yourself?
Of course it is different and can be compared to booger pick'n. When there are otheres around you don't just cram your finger up your nose and pick away. You try to sneak it in and twist it a coupel of times to get the little devil loosened up, and then at the last minute you may have to extend the time a little to actually break it loose from the nose hairs.
When FARTING, it too is a sneak method if people are present. Rarely do you just rip one off in the presence of people unless it is an accident, and then you blame it on your pet frog or a squeeky board in the floor. Or in my case the dog. I have people believing that my dog has the smelliest farts in the world. That way I can always blame him. He even has a reputation about farting that is the conversation at many parties. It always give me a feeling of guilt, mixed with laughter and pride, when I hear them talking, knowing full well it is my farts they are talking about. Other people have identity crisis. In other words their farts are all familiar in smell, and you always know who done it. I think my way is the smartest.
With boogers you nearly always get away with it unless you have an exceptional sticky one. In that case it is getting rid of it after the fact that is the dead give away. When you see some one with their hand out of the car window making small circles with their thumb and first finger that is a dead give away. If you watch long enough they will try to shake if off and it will not part from them. This action takes way too much time to be sly about it and someone is bound to see you in action. When they do it's a bust. Now on the other hand if the dog happens to be outside on the leash it is hard to blame him for the fart so you are busted for that too. It's a bad day!
What change(s) in behavior occur after pregnancy/birthing.?
Two very bonded, non-sibling cats, almost one year old, one boy, one girl. Boy impregnates girl. How will her behavior change toward him during the course of the pregnancy? Will he expect her to continue to play with him as she gets bigger, or will he, on some level, understand that she has %26quot;changed?%26quot; How will she react to him as her pregnancy progresses? After giving birth? How will he react to the newborns? After the kittens are grown up and gone, will their friendly relationship, maybe not the playfulness, but their mutual contentment from contact with one another (examples, curling up and sleeping with each other, grooming one another) resume? Can anyone speak to this from your past personal experience? Thanks.What change(s) in behavior occur after pregnancy/birthing.?
Intact males have been known to attack and kill newborn kittens, so you will have to keep them separated and safe for the first few weeks. The mother cat will eventually go back to normal with the boy, but if he comes anywhere near in the first few weeks of the kittens life the mother cat (I have seen this in the most gentle, docile cats) will freak out and go after him like you wouldn't believe. They are VERY protective mothers. During the pregnancy she will be come more and more affectionate, but will probably keep her distance more and more from the other cat as pregnancy progresses. What change(s) in behavior occur after pregnancy/birthing.?
..not really sure why you are breeding these cats and thinking they are %26quot;lovers%26quot;... I have a male and female, both fixed (because I actually care about kittens cats, and I know that thousands of them are homeless, and getting euthanized everyday) and they both still cuddle and play with each other. Besides, one year old is way to young to let a female cat have kittens... her body isn't even fully matured yet. Stop contributing to the extreme over population of cats and being irresponsible and get your cats neutered and spayed. What change(s) in behavior occur after pregnancy/birthing.?
You can never really tell what is going to happen. You don't say what the breed is, and you're not sure who the sire and dam are either, so you don't know the bloodline. There are no pics posted either.
Since you appear to be intelligent, I'll hit you with some facts regarding breeding:
Breeding is not just putting two animals together and hoping for the best. It's a proven process where you want to improve the breed. This is the ONLY reason you should breed an animal. You know who the sire is, and choose them for their bloodline, and for their health. They are always papered, checked and verified by the vet to confirm their health, since most health issues can be magnified in the kittens.
Same goes for the dam; she needs to be of great health, great disposition, and her mother should have been a great dam to the kittens. You have a better chance of her being a great mother, and knowing what to do.
Since there has been so much backyard breeding, all the health issues of the parents, and the parents before, are bred into the kittens being born today.
Who could say, you could have no problems at all, but let me tell you, having a kitten with deformeties is heartbreaking. A cleft palet is just a sad thing to see, and you've got to be trained in the breed to know what to do if something goes wrong. Dams will immediately kill any kitten where they sense something is wrong. Normally you won't see it but they will. I've seen dams kill the entire litter, with a breeder that chose a different sire. Something was wrong, and she stepped out for only half an hour.
I bred for years, because of love of the breed. I'm not sure why you're doing it, because you don't say. That brings up all sorts of red flags. If you're going to do it, educate yourself on the breed, and be prepared for anything.
Both animals should be checked and their papers verified. They should be of a certain age, and there should be NO health issues. Rarely are they from the same household, as having two unaltered animals is sheer torture for them and for you. Animals breed because they can, not because they want to.
So if you're going to breed your pair, I would suggest putting aside approx. 2K-5K for vet bills, having set appointments with the vet, keeping them separated, since it's not good to have the sire with the kittens, as they normally kill them.
Then be prepared if the female isn't a good mother. You're left with raising the kittens on their own. And god forbid something goes wrong. You need to be responsible for whatever happens.
This is why millions of cats are euthanized a year. Because people see cats as really cute, until they mature, are not spayed or neutered, and then get thrown out, because people don't educate themselves.
If you think I'm being rude, then fine. But if you take anything from this, take the time to get the education on breeding before you do it. It's your choice and not the cats.
Intact males have been known to attack and kill newborn kittens, so you will have to keep them separated and safe for the first few weeks. The mother cat will eventually go back to normal with the boy, but if he comes anywhere near in the first few weeks of the kittens life the mother cat (I have seen this in the most gentle, docile cats) will freak out and go after him like you wouldn't believe. They are VERY protective mothers. During the pregnancy she will be come more and more affectionate, but will probably keep her distance more and more from the other cat as pregnancy progresses. What change(s) in behavior occur after pregnancy/birthing.?
..not really sure why you are breeding these cats and thinking they are %26quot;lovers%26quot;... I have a male and female, both fixed (because I actually care about kittens cats, and I know that thousands of them are homeless, and getting euthanized everyday) and they both still cuddle and play with each other. Besides, one year old is way to young to let a female cat have kittens... her body isn't even fully matured yet. Stop contributing to the extreme over population of cats and being irresponsible and get your cats neutered and spayed. What change(s) in behavior occur after pregnancy/birthing.?
You can never really tell what is going to happen. You don't say what the breed is, and you're not sure who the sire and dam are either, so you don't know the bloodline. There are no pics posted either.
Since you appear to be intelligent, I'll hit you with some facts regarding breeding:
Breeding is not just putting two animals together and hoping for the best. It's a proven process where you want to improve the breed. This is the ONLY reason you should breed an animal. You know who the sire is, and choose them for their bloodline, and for their health. They are always papered, checked and verified by the vet to confirm their health, since most health issues can be magnified in the kittens.
Same goes for the dam; she needs to be of great health, great disposition, and her mother should have been a great dam to the kittens. You have a better chance of her being a great mother, and knowing what to do.
Since there has been so much backyard breeding, all the health issues of the parents, and the parents before, are bred into the kittens being born today.
Who could say, you could have no problems at all, but let me tell you, having a kitten with deformeties is heartbreaking. A cleft palet is just a sad thing to see, and you've got to be trained in the breed to know what to do if something goes wrong. Dams will immediately kill any kitten where they sense something is wrong. Normally you won't see it but they will. I've seen dams kill the entire litter, with a breeder that chose a different sire. Something was wrong, and she stepped out for only half an hour.
I bred for years, because of love of the breed. I'm not sure why you're doing it, because you don't say. That brings up all sorts of red flags. If you're going to do it, educate yourself on the breed, and be prepared for anything.
Both animals should be checked and their papers verified. They should be of a certain age, and there should be NO health issues. Rarely are they from the same household, as having two unaltered animals is sheer torture for them and for you. Animals breed because they can, not because they want to.
So if you're going to breed your pair, I would suggest putting aside approx. 2K-5K for vet bills, having set appointments with the vet, keeping them separated, since it's not good to have the sire with the kittens, as they normally kill them.
Then be prepared if the female isn't a good mother. You're left with raising the kittens on their own. And god forbid something goes wrong. You need to be responsible for whatever happens.
This is why millions of cats are euthanized a year. Because people see cats as really cute, until they mature, are not spayed or neutered, and then get thrown out, because people don't educate themselves.
If you think I'm being rude, then fine. But if you take anything from this, take the time to get the education on breeding before you do it. It's your choice and not the cats.
Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
My two year old Yorkie used to LOVE going for walks around the neighborhood and of course it was a great excuse for me to get out for a little exercise. Recently, we get barely around the corner and he %26quot;puts the brakes on%26quot;!
I use the same command as before %26quot; Let's Go%26quot; with a slight tug of his leash, but its a %26quot;no go%26quot;! Why the change in behavior and any ideas on how to correct it- I miss my walking buddy...Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
has your dog been sleeping excessively lately? loss of apetite?
not to scare you, but your dog may be suffering from depression...
one thing is certain: you are the best companion she has and you can help her thru this... you can consider consulting a vet, but try to set more time for play and bonding first... take her out in the park to see other dogs ang socialize, observe any changes...
this maybe able to guide you: http://dogtime.com/depression.html
hope you get back your walking buddy...Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
My moms dog does this. My mom spoils her dog. With animals you need to be the leader not the other way around so it would be that she thinks you do what she wants or maybe it could be a health reason. Have her legs checked by a vet get an x-ray done just to rule any thing with that because later if you found out it was due to problems with her legs you would feel terrible.Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
Something probably startled her. Try going around the corner in the opposite direction next time. Or pick her up and carry her around the corner.Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
my yorkie done the same so i just drove 2 the nearest park and let him run around and after that he forgot about his fear of walking outside the houseYorkie with change in walking behavior?
she could be scared by sounds or smells, and want to get back to the safety of her house. If it continues I would take him to the vets, toy breeds often have trouble with luxating patellas, and it could be that walking is painful for him, generally luxating patellas will get progressively worse, and you're better off catching it as soon as you can to help alleviate the pain.posteriorupdisks head lice at the barber
I use the same command as before %26quot; Let's Go%26quot; with a slight tug of his leash, but its a %26quot;no go%26quot;! Why the change in behavior and any ideas on how to correct it- I miss my walking buddy...Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
has your dog been sleeping excessively lately? loss of apetite?
not to scare you, but your dog may be suffering from depression...
one thing is certain: you are the best companion she has and you can help her thru this... you can consider consulting a vet, but try to set more time for play and bonding first... take her out in the park to see other dogs ang socialize, observe any changes...
this maybe able to guide you: http://dogtime.com/depression.html
hope you get back your walking buddy...Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
My moms dog does this. My mom spoils her dog. With animals you need to be the leader not the other way around so it would be that she thinks you do what she wants or maybe it could be a health reason. Have her legs checked by a vet get an x-ray done just to rule any thing with that because later if you found out it was due to problems with her legs you would feel terrible.Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
Something probably startled her. Try going around the corner in the opposite direction next time. Or pick her up and carry her around the corner.Yorkie with change in walking behavior?
my yorkie done the same so i just drove 2 the nearest park and let him run around and after that he forgot about his fear of walking outside the houseYorkie with change in walking behavior?
she could be scared by sounds or smells, and want to get back to the safety of her house. If it continues I would take him to the vets, toy breeds often have trouble with luxating patellas, and it could be that walking is painful for him, generally luxating patellas will get progressively worse, and you're better off catching it as soon as you can to help alleviate the pain.
How does a guy's behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Just trying to get an idea whether my guy friend likes likes me, or just thinks we are amazing friends now, which is why he calls and texts and teases me so much...How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Lucky for you, I've had my girlfriend since the 22nd of January, and I like her more and more everyday...
When we first started seeing her, I would call her or text her once/twice a day at most, I didn't want to overwhelm her or anything.
Since we started actually being together, we e-mail each other about 6-10 times a day, talk every day, see each other every other day, or every two days.
The more he expresses how much he likes you, the more he really IS starting to like you! Don't lie to him, and if he feels worried about where you have been or what you have been doing, reassure him.
Even though a guy might have found the best girl ever, and trusts her, there is still some degree of unknown in the back of our heads...every other past relationship hasn't worked out (otherwise the two of you wouldn't be together), so we unknowingly expect something to go wrong.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Teasing in a %26quot;sexual%26quot; manner is stoopid and a waste of your time. There is a level of respect that should be contained by both parties.
If he likes you, you'll see it in his face. He wont try to be a %26quot;balla%26quot; or %26quot;smooth%26quot; around you. He'll respect your time, your friends and your family. He wont make comments like %26quot;when you gonna give me some%26quot;. He wont play gettn busy music each time you're in the car. He wont get pissed off when you tell him no or shy away..
Now that I've told you probably everything he IS doing.. what do you think??
This is the best answer.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
he is trying to see if you are into him like he is into you. so he likes you and if you like him back show him that you careHow does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
The best way surely is to ask him how he feels, but I understand that is easier said than done. Sometimes it's really hard to read a guy. This happened with me a few times though, and often they become more touchy feely, flirty, and do feel the need to talk to and see you more. But they say friends make the best boyfriends.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
ask him.........................How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Those are all signs that he likes you. You really can't tell in what way without talking to him.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Guys act in the way you have just described when they are attracted to you. Sounds like you have someone chasing you.
Lucky for you, I've had my girlfriend since the 22nd of January, and I like her more and more everyday...
When we first started seeing her, I would call her or text her once/twice a day at most, I didn't want to overwhelm her or anything.
Since we started actually being together, we e-mail each other about 6-10 times a day, talk every day, see each other every other day, or every two days.
The more he expresses how much he likes you, the more he really IS starting to like you! Don't lie to him, and if he feels worried about where you have been or what you have been doing, reassure him.
Even though a guy might have found the best girl ever, and trusts her, there is still some degree of unknown in the back of our heads...every other past relationship hasn't worked out (otherwise the two of you wouldn't be together), so we unknowingly expect something to go wrong.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Teasing in a %26quot;sexual%26quot; manner is stoopid and a waste of your time. There is a level of respect that should be contained by both parties.
If he likes you, you'll see it in his face. He wont try to be a %26quot;balla%26quot; or %26quot;smooth%26quot; around you. He'll respect your time, your friends and your family. He wont make comments like %26quot;when you gonna give me some%26quot;. He wont play gettn busy music each time you're in the car. He wont get pissed off when you tell him no or shy away..
Now that I've told you probably everything he IS doing.. what do you think??
This is the best answer.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
he is trying to see if you are into him like he is into you. so he likes you and if you like him back show him that you careHow does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
The best way surely is to ask him how he feels, but I understand that is easier said than done. Sometimes it's really hard to read a guy. This happened with me a few times though, and often they become more touchy feely, flirty, and do feel the need to talk to and see you more. But they say friends make the best boyfriends.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
ask him.........................How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Those are all signs that he likes you. You really can't tell in what way without talking to him.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking his girl friend???
Guys act in the way you have just described when they are attracted to you. Sounds like you have someone chasing you.
My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i'm fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
i don't believe in spanking him but i wont tolorate him calling his sister a ***** and his brother a douche bag. how can i appoarch this problem without spanking him?My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
stop saying those words in front of himMy 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Tell him that language is not allowed in the house and take away a toy or TV or put him in a time out.
And where in the world did a little kid hear language like that in the first place? That's the root of your problem.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Someone's teaching him those words......which is WAY wrong.
Time out.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
wash his mouth out with soap. literally. I'm not joking. everyime he calles his siblings something bad wash his mouth out with soap. after he really gets that you will wash his mouth out, threaten him and if he doesnt stop, actually wash his mouth out. eventually he will get it. the thing is, the only way a THREE YEAR OLD would know those words is if you use them, our your other children/his friends use them. get everyone to stop useing them. because you guys used them, he thought it was okay.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
My child would bite her big sister when she was 2. Every single time she did it, I put her the corner immediately. It took two weeks of this process, but she stopped for good.
There should be a consequence, it should be immediate, it should be consistent and it should be known to the child this is not tolerated in your home. Ever.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
A 3 year old does not know what he is saying. He is just repeating things he has heard. He may have picked up the words from adults or television. If he gets a reaction from you, he may repeat things again.
Try not to show shock --try to ignore him -- and pay attention to what he is hearing. Clean up his environment.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Everytime he calls htem those words send him to his room telling him to think about what he just said. explain to him we don't use those words and everytime he uses those words, he will have to go to his room. make the punishment fit the crime..he has to apologize to his siblings when he comes out. make him say%26quot; I am sorry for calling you a bad name%26quot; popping in the mouth does not work.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
those words shouldn't even be said around the kids. where is he learning this from .he don't even know what they mean to even get disiplined for it. he is only saying is because that is how other people in your home are expressing themselves. teach everyone else to choose there words wisely. and teach the little one other ways to express himself. like he can tell his sis she is being a meanie etc.and if he is getting it from the older kids start a cuss jar . everytime you hear the word said they get allowances taken away or they gotta give you a certain amount from there allowance. if they aint getting money then give them chores like scrubbing the toilet etc. fill the jar with chores or make them pay for there potty mouths. this should control the amount of swearing. good luck. its not the little ones fault that he is learning this. and if the kids are using money tell the little one if you dont say those words by the end of the week well use the cuss jar money to take you somewhere or buy you something. use lots of positive reinforcement good luck to youMy 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
He's either getting these words from you, another adult he's close to, TV or older kids. Ban those words from your house. The best advice I have ever heard is to tell the older kids what the words really mean - it worked well for my friend's daughter who liked to use the F word a lot. She was so embarrassed she never used it again (in front of her parents). A 3 year old wouldn't understand. What we do when our son calls us stupid is tell him %26quot;That's a put down. You hurt my feelings when you do that.%26quot; Then we make him apologise. It's worked for us. You might want to also use consequences - loss of TV time, certain toys, etc.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Kids repeat what they hear so, who ever is saying these words in front of him needs to stop. After he stops hearing others say these words explain to him they are not nice words and give him nice words to use. if he says them ignore it, to a poing and it should stop. Just say thats not nice to say, please dont use those words, calmly. dont make a huge deal out of it or he will keep saying them. Kids like a reaction. dont spank him, its not his fault he was taught these words, you just have to fix the problem by not exposing him to this language.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Stop cussing around him maybe?
Or if it's not you, then it has to be someone else.
So keep him away from that stuff and then he wont even know words like that exist.
to stop it, everytime he calls her a name shove a bar of soap in his mouth.
You say you won't tolerate it, then don't tolerate it.
Point and blank.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
I would first find out where he is hearing these words. What names is he being called?
At three he has no idea what they mean, except that they are getting a reaction from everyone....!
Not sure spanking is the answer...? Maybe timeout away from brother %26amp; sister whenever it occurs?
Good Luck!My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
I used mint sauce. We call it the bad sauce. If one of my children uses a bad word that's what they get. It works.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
They are just words lady, your kids are fine. Just tell your kid that those are hurtful words and will get him in a lot of trouble with authority figures, tell him to only use those words when they are called for. Like when someone is being really nasty to him. If says them when they are completely uncalled for, give him a timeout, super-nanny style. He'll listen eventually.
stop saying those words in front of himMy 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Tell him that language is not allowed in the house and take away a toy or TV or put him in a time out.
And where in the world did a little kid hear language like that in the first place? That's the root of your problem.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Someone's teaching him those words......which is WAY wrong.
Time out.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
wash his mouth out with soap. literally. I'm not joking. everyime he calles his siblings something bad wash his mouth out with soap. after he really gets that you will wash his mouth out, threaten him and if he doesnt stop, actually wash his mouth out. eventually he will get it. the thing is, the only way a THREE YEAR OLD would know those words is if you use them, our your other children/his friends use them. get everyone to stop useing them. because you guys used them, he thought it was okay.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
My child would bite her big sister when she was 2. Every single time she did it, I put her the corner immediately. It took two weeks of this process, but she stopped for good.
There should be a consequence, it should be immediate, it should be consistent and it should be known to the child this is not tolerated in your home. Ever.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
A 3 year old does not know what he is saying. He is just repeating things he has heard. He may have picked up the words from adults or television. If he gets a reaction from you, he may repeat things again.
Try not to show shock --try to ignore him -- and pay attention to what he is hearing. Clean up his environment.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Everytime he calls htem those words send him to his room telling him to think about what he just said. explain to him we don't use those words and everytime he uses those words, he will have to go to his room. make the punishment fit the crime..he has to apologize to his siblings when he comes out. make him say%26quot; I am sorry for calling you a bad name%26quot; popping in the mouth does not work.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
those words shouldn't even be said around the kids. where is he learning this from .he don't even know what they mean to even get disiplined for it. he is only saying is because that is how other people in your home are expressing themselves. teach everyone else to choose there words wisely. and teach the little one other ways to express himself. like he can tell his sis she is being a meanie etc.and if he is getting it from the older kids start a cuss jar . everytime you hear the word said they get allowances taken away or they gotta give you a certain amount from there allowance. if they aint getting money then give them chores like scrubbing the toilet etc. fill the jar with chores or make them pay for there potty mouths. this should control the amount of swearing. good luck. its not the little ones fault that he is learning this. and if the kids are using money tell the little one if you dont say those words by the end of the week well use the cuss jar money to take you somewhere or buy you something. use lots of positive reinforcement good luck to youMy 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
He's either getting these words from you, another adult he's close to, TV or older kids. Ban those words from your house. The best advice I have ever heard is to tell the older kids what the words really mean - it worked well for my friend's daughter who liked to use the F word a lot. She was so embarrassed she never used it again (in front of her parents). A 3 year old wouldn't understand. What we do when our son calls us stupid is tell him %26quot;That's a put down. You hurt my feelings when you do that.%26quot; Then we make him apologise. It's worked for us. You might want to also use consequences - loss of TV time, certain toys, etc.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Kids repeat what they hear so, who ever is saying these words in front of him needs to stop. After he stops hearing others say these words explain to him they are not nice words and give him nice words to use. if he says them ignore it, to a poing and it should stop. Just say thats not nice to say, please dont use those words, calmly. dont make a huge deal out of it or he will keep saying them. Kids like a reaction. dont spank him, its not his fault he was taught these words, you just have to fix the problem by not exposing him to this language.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
Stop cussing around him maybe?
Or if it's not you, then it has to be someone else.
So keep him away from that stuff and then he wont even know words like that exist.
to stop it, everytime he calls her a name shove a bar of soap in his mouth.
You say you won't tolerate it, then don't tolerate it.
Point and blank.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
I would first find out where he is hearing these words. What names is he being called?
At three he has no idea what they mean, except that they are getting a reaction from everyone....!
Not sure spanking is the answer...? Maybe timeout away from brother %26amp; sister whenever it occurs?
Good Luck!My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
I used mint sauce. We call it the bad sauce. If one of my children uses a bad word that's what they get. It works.My 3y/o son calls his sister a ***** and i%26039;m fed up with it. what can i do to change his behavior?
They are just words lady, your kids are fine. Just tell your kid that those are hurtful words and will get him in a lot of trouble with authority figures, tell him to only use those words when they are called for. Like when someone is being really nasty to him. If says them when they are completely uncalled for, give him a timeout, super-nanny style. He'll listen eventually.
When interest rates fall, how might you change your economic behavior?
how to change economic behavior when interest rates fall?When interest rates fall, how might you change your economic behavior?
if interest rates fall, people make more investment (as cost of borowing decrease)in order to put money in banks and it lead to an economic boomWhen interest rates fall, how might you change your economic behavior?
When interest rates fall, people will be less likely to put their money in the bank in the form of fixed deposits and savings, they will be more inclined to invest their money in equities.
if interest rates fall, people make more investment (as cost of borowing decrease)in order to put money in banks and it lead to an economic boomWhen interest rates fall, how might you change your economic behavior?
When interest rates fall, people will be less likely to put their money in the bank in the form of fixed deposits and savings, they will be more inclined to invest their money in equities.
How can subliminal messages be used to?
Change behavior in a person? How can these messages affect the 5 senses?
I just wanna know how do subliminal messages influence others.
ThanxHow can subliminal messages be used to?
Subliminal messages don't have an effect on our behavior. Because they are subliminal (the subliminal is below the liminal-the smallest detectable sensation) they wouldn't register in our Conscious brain, therefore having no real impact on a human. They often aren't consciously detectable which means that you wouldn't realize the messages was there, thus you wouldn't act on it. There have been a few cases about subliminal messages in music that supposedly caused people to committ murder-you should search for those and decide what you think.How can subliminal messages be used to?
Subliminal messages don't really work. Numerous studies have shown that the whole idea is a sham.
I just wanna know how do subliminal messages influence others.
ThanxHow can subliminal messages be used to?
Subliminal messages don't have an effect on our behavior. Because they are subliminal (the subliminal is below the liminal-the smallest detectable sensation) they wouldn't register in our Conscious brain, therefore having no real impact on a human. They often aren't consciously detectable which means that you wouldn't realize the messages was there, thus you wouldn't act on it. There have been a few cases about subliminal messages in music that supposedly caused people to committ murder-you should search for those and decide what you think.How can subliminal messages be used to?
Subliminal messages don't really work. Numerous studies have shown that the whole idea is a sham.
Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
On Father's Day are yorkie gave birth to 6 healthy pups. The mother%26amp;father are great parents, are only problem is since the puppies were born the father named Little Bit hikes his leg and urinates on things. I know this is the way male dogs mark there domain but is there anyway we can change this behavior? All six puppies were sold within 12 weeks, we started selling at 8 weeks. Could this behavior change now that the puppies are gone?Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
First and foremost get him neutered. This will DRAMATICALLY reduce is need to mark everywhere. Also, honestly if you are asking this question you don't know enough about dogs to be breeding them, even if you did find homes for them. There are Yorkie pups in shelters that could have had those 6 homes, theoretically.
Spray the area that he marks with nature's miracle. This will remove the smell so he will not learn to go there. Then, when you catch him in the act say %26quot;no%26quot; or shake a can on penny's, startling him. He is asserting his dominance. You can also work with him more, teaching him mor commands. Put him in what is called a %26quot;long stay%26quot; - making him stay down for 30 minutes until you release him. This will show him that you are the boss. I hope you sold the puppies under a spay neuter contract...if not that's 36+ more Yorkie puppies that will be born and bought instead or rescued :-(Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
The only way I know for a dog not to mark his territory is to get him neutered but as he has already reached full maturity this may not work in Little Bits case. It could be that his behaviour will eventually return to normal now that the pups are away, if not you could try a carpet/upholstry cleaner to get rid of all signs that there were other wee dogs in the house.
Good LuckAre boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
Get him put down ?Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
Have him neutered. Usually neutered males do not mark.Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
This is his way to show that your house is his territory. I have stud living in my house w/4 females and is hard work but you need to show him it is unacceptable. Its like housetraining. Get after him and make him stay w/you. You are the boss, be the alpha and let him know this. They also have a wrap around diaper you may use on him to prevent dammage to the house. My stud totally respects me and wont lift his leg as long as I'm home and occassionally does when I leave so I use the wrap when hes left alone and crate his butt. This should pass once the home gets to normal again. Your stud will probably do the same thing when females come into heat so be warned and have him under high guard. Never think this is natural and to let it go...its unacceptable and you let him know this.Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
have him fixed....Clean areas he's markedpotato bacon soup shared hosting
First and foremost get him neutered. This will DRAMATICALLY reduce is need to mark everywhere. Also, honestly if you are asking this question you don't know enough about dogs to be breeding them, even if you did find homes for them. There are Yorkie pups in shelters that could have had those 6 homes, theoretically.
Spray the area that he marks with nature's miracle. This will remove the smell so he will not learn to go there. Then, when you catch him in the act say %26quot;no%26quot; or shake a can on penny's, startling him. He is asserting his dominance. You can also work with him more, teaching him mor commands. Put him in what is called a %26quot;long stay%26quot; - making him stay down for 30 minutes until you release him. This will show him that you are the boss. I hope you sold the puppies under a spay neuter contract...if not that's 36+ more Yorkie puppies that will be born and bought instead or rescued :-(Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
The only way I know for a dog not to mark his territory is to get him neutered but as he has already reached full maturity this may not work in Little Bits case. It could be that his behaviour will eventually return to normal now that the pups are away, if not you could try a carpet/upholstry cleaner to get rid of all signs that there were other wee dogs in the house.
Good LuckAre boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
Get him put down ?Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
Have him neutered. Usually neutered males do not mark.Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
This is his way to show that your house is his territory. I have stud living in my house w/4 females and is hard work but you need to show him it is unacceptable. Its like housetraining. Get after him and make him stay w/you. You are the boss, be the alpha and let him know this. They also have a wrap around diaper you may use on him to prevent dammage to the house. My stud totally respects me and wont lift his leg as long as I'm home and occassionally does when I leave so I use the wrap when hes left alone and crate his butt. This should pass once the home gets to normal again. Your stud will probably do the same thing when females come into heat so be warned and have him under high guard. Never think this is natural and to let it go...its unacceptable and you let him know this.Are boy dog marks on everything how can we change this?
have him fixed....Clean areas he's marked
How to faster change my behavior?
Hi
there is a book called %26quot;Life's little instructions book%26quot;.
there are many suggestion for changing life in this book.
i want to know how to memorize and use these tips.
they are 511 suggestions.
Thanks.How to faster change my behavior?
chose the ones that are the most important for you and start with them. And then go step by stepHow to faster change my behavior?
I have the book. Read each one each day and meditate on them throughout the day. After you've completed the book start over and read it again doing the same.How to faster change my behavior?
Write down the ones u like best and stick them on a wall in your room. You dont have to be in a hurry so just
go one by one!
good luckHow to faster change my behavior?
take the book with you wherever you go, they you can take it out and look whenever you need to check something....
if you want my advice throw the book away... you've read it, if it was important Information that would help, you will remember it.... i mean.. come on, you can't live life from a book.... you know whats wrong with your life and you don't need a book to sort it.... take some charge... your life, your rule!!!!
there is a book called %26quot;Life's little instructions book%26quot;.
there are many suggestion for changing life in this book.
i want to know how to memorize and use these tips.
they are 511 suggestions.
Thanks.How to faster change my behavior?
chose the ones that are the most important for you and start with them. And then go step by stepHow to faster change my behavior?
I have the book. Read each one each day and meditate on them throughout the day. After you've completed the book start over and read it again doing the same.How to faster change my behavior?
Write down the ones u like best and stick them on a wall in your room. You dont have to be in a hurry so just
go one by one!
good luckHow to faster change my behavior?
take the book with you wherever you go, they you can take it out and look whenever you need to check something....
if you want my advice throw the book away... you've read it, if it was important Information that would help, you will remember it.... i mean.. come on, you can't live life from a book.... you know whats wrong with your life and you don't need a book to sort it.... take some charge... your life, your rule!!!!
How does a guy's behavior change when he starts liking you???
Just trying to get an idea whether my guy friend likes likes me, or just thinks we are amazing friends now, which is why he calls and texts and teases me so much...How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking you???
Lots of communication:
-Gives you his undivided attention.
-Often walks up to you and tries to strike a conversation.
Jealous:
-If you say something like, %26quot;That guy's hot.%26quot; And he's around, he'll probably try to change the conversation or, just not say anything.
-If you go out w/ another guy, he'd probably be devastated and the attention stops. (Though he'll probably still talk to you if he thinks he may have a chance in the future, if he supports your relationship, it may be a way to deflect the chance of you thinking that he ever liked you in the first place to hide the embarrassment of liking you and showing it, but being rejected.)
Other:
-Often makes fun of you in a playful way.
-Usually agrees with you about everything, if you 2 disagree, he may change his opinion.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking you???
hwne he's around you he'll seem kinda awkward but not badly if he plays it off good. Physical contact is a definate sign
Lots of communication:
-Gives you his undivided attention.
-Often walks up to you and tries to strike a conversation.
Jealous:
-If you say something like, %26quot;That guy's hot.%26quot; And he's around, he'll probably try to change the conversation or, just not say anything.
-If you go out w/ another guy, he'd probably be devastated and the attention stops. (Though he'll probably still talk to you if he thinks he may have a chance in the future, if he supports your relationship, it may be a way to deflect the chance of you thinking that he ever liked you in the first place to hide the embarrassment of liking you and showing it, but being rejected.)
Other:
-Often makes fun of you in a playful way.
-Usually agrees with you about everything, if you 2 disagree, he may change his opinion.How does a guy%26039;s behavior change when he starts liking you???
hwne he's around you he'll seem kinda awkward but not badly if he plays it off good. Physical contact is a definate sign
How do Scout and Jem change during the course of the To Kill a Mockingbird novel? Remain the same?
Doing a 3 paragraph essay.
1st paragraph - How they remain the same
Topic sentence
Thesis statement
2nd paragraph - behavior changes
3rd paragraph - conclusion, things that added up to Scout and Jem changing.
Each paragraph needs to be 10 sentences.
Any help would be appreciated. Simple bullet points or paragraphs with help would be great. Thanks.How do Scout and Jem change during the course of the To Kill a Mockingbird novel? Remain the same?
To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee
Study Guides:
http://www.bookrags.com/notes/tkm/
http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/mocking/
http://www.aresearchguide.com/mock.html
http://www.shmoop.com/to-kill-a-mockingb
http://www.litcharts.com/lit/tokillamock
http://www.schoolbytes.com/summary.php?i
http://www.homework-online.com/tkamb/ind
http://www.universalteacher.org.uk/gcse/
1st paragraph - How they remain the same
Topic sentence
Thesis statement
2nd paragraph - behavior changes
3rd paragraph - conclusion, things that added up to Scout and Jem changing.
Each paragraph needs to be 10 sentences.
Any help would be appreciated. Simple bullet points or paragraphs with help would be great. Thanks.How do Scout and Jem change during the course of the To Kill a Mockingbird novel? Remain the same?
To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee
Study Guides:
http://www.bookrags.com/notes/tkm/
http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/mocking/
http://www.aresearchguide.com/mock.html
http://www.shmoop.com/to-kill-a-mockingb
http://www.litcharts.com/lit/tokillamock
http://www.schoolbytes.com/summary.php?i
http://www.homework-online.com/tkamb/ind
http://www.universalteacher.org.uk/gcse/
How could we change the behavior of people towards disability in South Africa,how do we have to treat them?
Attitudes change at A slower rate than progress(ie.technology)and are(probably)dependant on the indigent culture.Compassion is a newer concept than you might imagine.education is a key,unfortunately it doesn't work at a click in 3rd world countries yet,investment is another -all of Africa has resourcesas yet unseen and unfound,Time -I think-is the cure you're looking for
What should you do if your girlfriend's friend for 10 years hates you and doesn't approve your love together?
How would you feel if she waits patiently for her friend to change behavior towards yourself and the relationship. How long should or can you wait? How would you feel if she still hangs out with this friend to try to resolve things (slowly) despite the situation? Please advice. Thank you. She said she hates you because you flirted with her and her other friend and that you ruined an authentic and pure friendship - which is not true. What should you do if your girlfriend%26039;s friend for 10 years hates you and doesn%26039;t approve your love together?
first of all you love your girlfriend for your girlfriend i would be telling the friend its non of their business and to piss off ya know! if your girlfriend is making a big deal out of it as far as saying shes not happy that her friends not happy i would be keeping my eyes open because if she chooses her friend over you, then shes not worth it, but if things are great and everything is working i wouldn't worry about the friend its not the friends relationship. just be happy with your girlfriend and make the best of it :)What should you do if your girlfriend%26039;s friend for 10 years hates you and doesn%26039;t approve your love together?
If after 10 years she can't get her head around it, I personally wouldn't bother with her anymore.blonde hair grey hair
first of all you love your girlfriend for your girlfriend i would be telling the friend its non of their business and to piss off ya know! if your girlfriend is making a big deal out of it as far as saying shes not happy that her friends not happy i would be keeping my eyes open because if she chooses her friend over you, then shes not worth it, but if things are great and everything is working i wouldn't worry about the friend its not the friends relationship. just be happy with your girlfriend and make the best of it :)What should you do if your girlfriend%26039;s friend for 10 years hates you and doesn%26039;t approve your love together?
If after 10 years she can't get her head around it, I personally wouldn't bother with her anymore.
How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
I buy a jar of mix nuts for everyone but my boss sticks his hand inside the jar instead of tilting the jar and pouring them on to his hands as I do and others. How can i get him to change behavior?How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
get a different type of container that has a pourable top. see link below.How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
till him to tilt itHow do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
Wow that is a tough one!
If you offend him he can make you work life heck! Ok hhmm you could try cracking jokes, or saying things like....
%26quot; Al came over just before you and stuck his hand in there, but I heard he doesn't wash his hands after he comes out of the bathroom!%26quot;
That will make him second guess the next time he tries that!!
Good Luck!How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
That's a toughie.
You could make a joke about like someone else suggested.
Or get one of those nut-dispensing machine things that give people only a handful at a time.
Or just buy little packets in bulk?
Hope I helped.How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
Buy a can that looks like peanuts but when you open it a snake like thing pops out, that would at least give you good laugh. But seirously made you could put the jar where he can't get it without asking and then you could take the lid off and tell him to put out his hand and you will pour him some. You could put a spoon in them so mabe he will get a hint. Some people are just rude %26amp; need to be hit over the head.How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
He probably doesn't even think about it, and it's a subconscious action.
Present him with another option that makes it more obvious what to do when sharing a communal jar of food:
Get a gum-ball dispenser for your nuts. It forces them to keep their hands clear.
Get a small scoop and keep it in the jar. A scoop practically screams %26quot;Use me, not your hands!%26quot;
get a different type of container that has a pourable top. see link below.How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
till him to tilt itHow do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
Wow that is a tough one!
If you offend him he can make you work life heck! Ok hhmm you could try cracking jokes, or saying things like....
%26quot; Al came over just before you and stuck his hand in there, but I heard he doesn't wash his hands after he comes out of the bathroom!%26quot;
That will make him second guess the next time he tries that!!
Good Luck!How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
That's a toughie.
You could make a joke about like someone else suggested.
Or get one of those nut-dispensing machine things that give people only a handful at a time.
Or just buy little packets in bulk?
Hope I helped.How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
Buy a can that looks like peanuts but when you open it a snake like thing pops out, that would at least give you good laugh. But seirously made you could put the jar where he can't get it without asking and then you could take the lid off and tell him to put out his hand and you will pour him some. You could put a spoon in them so mabe he will get a hint. Some people are just rude %26amp; need to be hit over the head.How do I stop my boss from puttin hand inside peanut jar?
He probably doesn't even think about it, and it's a subconscious action.
Present him with another option that makes it more obvious what to do when sharing a communal jar of food:
Get a gum-ball dispenser for your nuts. It forces them to keep their hands clear.
Get a small scoop and keep it in the jar. A scoop practically screams %26quot;Use me, not your hands!%26quot;
Change in the Behaviour?
have some habits which are hindering my career and personal growth.
People say that it is very difficult to change the behavioural skills.
I am 35 Years old. I myself find difficulty in changing. Even If I change,
changed behaviour is not consistent. If I dont change I will be nowhere.
I do read selfhelp books. Putting them into practice is difficult.
Eg. for Unfavourable habits/behaviour is low voice, improper verbal commnication,
not able to manage a team, emotional etc. Pl. suggest how to bring permanent positive changeChange in the Behaviour?
To help improve your communication skills, enlist a friend who will be brutally honest. Have them listen to you give a brief presentation (even reading a passage from a book). Do this on a regular basis until you have shown consistent improvement. One thing that helped me was taking a business communications class. Managing a team is a difficult task, make a list of the tactics you've been using. What works? What doesn't? Asking for feedback from the team may be helpful as well, depending on their maturity level. Remember, as a manager, you are not a dictator but a part of the team you lead. I have always found that by treating others the way I would want to be treated works well. What things make you emotional? My mentor always used to say %26quot;this is not a matter of life or death, it's work%26quot;. If stress is difficult for you to deal with, take a %26quot;breather%26quot;. Learn some meditation or relaxation breathing techniques.
Change is difficult for everyone, don't get too down on yourself if it doesn't happen overnight. In order for it to happen, you have to truly believe in your ability. I realize it's a bit cliche but, there's a reason it's stuck around this long - because it's true.
Best of luck to you in your career!Change in the Behaviour?
Don't try to change yourself. Rather try and better yourself. Go on courses that will help you in that field.Change in the Behaviour?
keep telling yourself u can do it. stick to it and you'll succeed.Change in the Behaviour?
well this may not help coming from a 16 year old kid but here goes :)
wat i do is study people's behaviour(people ive never seen or heard of before) and try to see how they fit in environment. o and try to have a vacation inside ur home and not outside. it always helps people who come to me for help. :P
o and dont forget to listen to music that u relax with. heres and example of the type of music i like and feel comfertable with: rock, rock-rap, spanish- rap
hope it helps ^_^Change in the Behaviour?
Hey mate!
Don't suddenly changeur behaviour it would affect ur mind and body
Go fo business Management courses where u'll be taught how to hanle a team u see handling a team is rather difficult that handling ur own self
If u feeel stress at ur work place try to do some meditation and keep controling ur mind in one direction at a time (EX:Yoga)
Try to get a person who is Honest so that he could eve\aluate ur work for a period of time.
try to say urself that u can achieve and think positively be more optimistic and try to think everything is easy don't think that difficult i won't be able to do it in time .
try to be patient and interesting and be more keen on u job and wat u have to do.
Don't be afraid and don't take any task with risking u life and wasting ur precious time as time is invaluable and would run out quickly.
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Skills need to develop teamwork:
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Aside from any required technical proficiency, a wide variety of social skills are desirable for successful teamwork, including:
Listening - it is important to listen to other people's ideas. When people are allowed to freely express their ideas, these initial ideas will produce other ideas.
Questioning - it is important to ask questions, interact, and discuss the objectives of the team.
Persuading - individuals are encouraged to exchange, defend, and then to ultimately rethink their ideas.
Respecting - it is important to treat others with respect and to support their ideas.
Helping - it is crucial to help one's coworkers, which is the general theme of teamwork.
Sharing - it is important to share with the team to create an environment of teamwork.
Participating - all members of the team are encouraged to participate in the team.
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Meditation ::
is the practice of focusing the mind, often formalized into a specific routine. Meditation is usually recognized as a component of Eastern religions, originating in Vedic Hinduism. It encompasses any of a wide variety of spiritual practices which emphasize mental activity or quiescence. Meditation can also be used for personal development, such as the exercises of Hatha yoga. Many practise meditation in order to achieve eternal peace, while others do it in order to become healthier and friendlier.
One can also think of management functionally, as the action of measuring a quantity on a regular basis and of adjusting some initial plan, and as the actions taken to reach one's intended goal. This applies even in situations where planning does not take place. From this perspective, there are five management functions: planning, organizing, leading, co-ordinating and controlling. For others though, this definition, while useful, is far too narrow. The phrase %26quot;management is what managers do%26quot; is also prevalent, conveying the difficulty with which management is defined, the shifting nature of definitions, and the connection of managerial practices with the existence of a managerial cadre or class.
Management is known by some as %26quot;business administration%26quot;, although this then excludes management in places outside business, eg charities and the public sector. University departments that teach management are nonetheless usually called %26quot;business schools%26quot;. The term %26quot;management%26quot; may also be used as a collective word, describe the managers of an organization, for example of a corporation.Change in the Behaviour?
Once you're about 21, your personality is set and will not change without a life changing event IE, death in immediate family, divorce, significant religious experience, etc.
That being said...
Get a mentor - someone that is professionally successful and you know well enough to approach honestly. This is without a doubt the most successful way to change - by having a coach to emulate and bounce situations off. Be prepared to get your feeling hurt a lot... it's part of the process. But; if you listen and really try - it will work.
People say that it is very difficult to change the behavioural skills.
I am 35 Years old. I myself find difficulty in changing. Even If I change,
changed behaviour is not consistent. If I dont change I will be nowhere.
I do read selfhelp books. Putting them into practice is difficult.
Eg. for Unfavourable habits/behaviour is low voice, improper verbal commnication,
not able to manage a team, emotional etc. Pl. suggest how to bring permanent positive changeChange in the Behaviour?
To help improve your communication skills, enlist a friend who will be brutally honest. Have them listen to you give a brief presentation (even reading a passage from a book). Do this on a regular basis until you have shown consistent improvement. One thing that helped me was taking a business communications class. Managing a team is a difficult task, make a list of the tactics you've been using. What works? What doesn't? Asking for feedback from the team may be helpful as well, depending on their maturity level. Remember, as a manager, you are not a dictator but a part of the team you lead. I have always found that by treating others the way I would want to be treated works well. What things make you emotional? My mentor always used to say %26quot;this is not a matter of life or death, it's work%26quot;. If stress is difficult for you to deal with, take a %26quot;breather%26quot;. Learn some meditation or relaxation breathing techniques.
Change is difficult for everyone, don't get too down on yourself if it doesn't happen overnight. In order for it to happen, you have to truly believe in your ability. I realize it's a bit cliche but, there's a reason it's stuck around this long - because it's true.
Best of luck to you in your career!Change in the Behaviour?
Don't try to change yourself. Rather try and better yourself. Go on courses that will help you in that field.Change in the Behaviour?
keep telling yourself u can do it. stick to it and you'll succeed.Change in the Behaviour?
well this may not help coming from a 16 year old kid but here goes :)
wat i do is study people's behaviour(people ive never seen or heard of before) and try to see how they fit in environment. o and try to have a vacation inside ur home and not outside. it always helps people who come to me for help. :P
o and dont forget to listen to music that u relax with. heres and example of the type of music i like and feel comfertable with: rock, rock-rap, spanish- rap
hope it helps ^_^Change in the Behaviour?
Hey mate!
Don't suddenly changeur behaviour it would affect ur mind and body
Go fo business Management courses where u'll be taught how to hanle a team u see handling a team is rather difficult that handling ur own self
If u feeel stress at ur work place try to do some meditation and keep controling ur mind in one direction at a time (EX:Yoga)
Try to get a person who is Honest so that he could eve\aluate ur work for a period of time.
try to say urself that u can achieve and think positively be more optimistic and try to think everything is easy don't think that difficult i won't be able to do it in time .
try to be patient and interesting and be more keen on u job and wat u have to do.
Don't be afraid and don't take any task with risking u life and wasting ur precious time as time is invaluable and would run out quickly.
--------------------------------------?br>
Skills need to develop teamwork:
--------------------------------------?br>
Aside from any required technical proficiency, a wide variety of social skills are desirable for successful teamwork, including:
Listening - it is important to listen to other people's ideas. When people are allowed to freely express their ideas, these initial ideas will produce other ideas.
Questioning - it is important to ask questions, interact, and discuss the objectives of the team.
Persuading - individuals are encouraged to exchange, defend, and then to ultimately rethink their ideas.
Respecting - it is important to treat others with respect and to support their ideas.
Helping - it is crucial to help one's coworkers, which is the general theme of teamwork.
Sharing - it is important to share with the team to create an environment of teamwork.
Participating - all members of the team are encouraged to participate in the team.
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Meditation ::
is the practice of focusing the mind, often formalized into a specific routine. Meditation is usually recognized as a component of Eastern religions, originating in Vedic Hinduism. It encompasses any of a wide variety of spiritual practices which emphasize mental activity or quiescence. Meditation can also be used for personal development, such as the exercises of Hatha yoga. Many practise meditation in order to achieve eternal peace, while others do it in order to become healthier and friendlier.
One can also think of management functionally, as the action of measuring a quantity on a regular basis and of adjusting some initial plan, and as the actions taken to reach one's intended goal. This applies even in situations where planning does not take place. From this perspective, there are five management functions: planning, organizing, leading, co-ordinating and controlling. For others though, this definition, while useful, is far too narrow. The phrase %26quot;management is what managers do%26quot; is also prevalent, conveying the difficulty with which management is defined, the shifting nature of definitions, and the connection of managerial practices with the existence of a managerial cadre or class.
Management is known by some as %26quot;business administration%26quot;, although this then excludes management in places outside business, eg charities and the public sector. University departments that teach management are nonetheless usually called %26quot;business schools%26quot;. The term %26quot;management%26quot; may also be used as a collective word, describe the managers of an organization, for example of a corporation.Change in the Behaviour?
Once you're about 21, your personality is set and will not change without a life changing event IE, death in immediate family, divorce, significant religious experience, etc.
That being said...
Get a mentor - someone that is professionally successful and you know well enough to approach honestly. This is without a doubt the most successful way to change - by having a coach to emulate and bounce situations off. Be prepared to get your feeling hurt a lot... it's part of the process. But; if you listen and really try - it will work.
Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I am adopting a 3 year old cat. Technically, she's already adopted by us, we just can't pick her up yet until Thursday, after she is spayed. Is it true that a lot of times, after a cat has been fixed, their behavior can become more defensive, or aggressive? I know they sometimes feel defenseless when they get their claws removed, but this cat already has her front claws out. She's already pretty laid back and lazy, which is exactly what I wanted, just not too lazy. So do you think that getting her spayed, which is required by the shelter, would affect how she adjusts to our home, compared to one that is not spayed?Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
No it is definitely not true. If anything, spaying your cat will make her quality of life better. No more going into heat and hollering all the time, no uterine cancer when she gets old, etc. The myth that animals' behaviors change after spaying/neutering is just that - a myth. I commend you on the decision to not only adopt, but to spay as well.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I've never heard of a cat becoming aggressive after being fixed. I've only experienced them being calmer afterwards.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I have six cats---five are female. ALL are spayed/neutered. I found they got EVEN MORE affectionate after getting spayed! An added benefit--less likely to get many cancers.
Enjoy and love your new pal! Good luck! %26gt;^..^%26lt;Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
she will probably be less aggresive because she won't be coming into heat. I'm sure her mellow personality won't change at all.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
If a spayed cat happens to be defensive, it could be that way because of abuse, lack of socialization, genetics, etc, not because of spaying. They may be a little understandably touchy after surgery, but in the long run, it may even help her adjust to being in your home.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
their behavior does change, but it's almost always temporarily. They just become a bit more defensive because the porcedure can give them quite a fright. (that rhymed lol).. no but seriously, your cat will be back to normal sooner than you think.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I have 9 cats and some of them were full grown, but unwanted for mostly stupid reasons (wrong color, owners moving, etc.) I didn't spade them right away...some are females and a male. Their behavior didn't change at all except I didn't have to listen to them while they went through their heats.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I would expect if she is already 3 years old, and on the lazy side, getting her spayed will not make her more active... probably will not be able to tell a difference. Once she is adjusted to your home and comfportable, her temperment should remain same as always. Cats that are really wired, active, aggressive are usually really young, and not fixed. That just the experience I have, I have had 15 cats during my whole life. She is already older than kitten stage... She isnt too old to play and have fun. She should still love to play string, or be intrigued with a brown paper sack on the floor... she should stuill have a lot of fun and be a great kitty for you.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
Cats that are spayed are very affectionate and they are very loving cats. I have a cat that is spayed and she loves to sit in my lap and when I first got her she use to jump up in my arms and hurt me a lot and when I got her spayed it all stopped.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
The only thing I have ever noticed is that the males tend to wander less, fight less and lose the need to spray on everything (though the spraying can continue as a learned behavior). Bot sexes get a little heavier (fatter) then they would if they were not fixed.
The incidence of testicular cancer is dramatically reduced and the spread of infectious diseases is reduced as well, due to less fightingDoes Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
They absolutely do not become deffensive or aggressive from being spayed or nuetred. This involved the removal of organs that emit breeding hormones, thus giving the cat a strong instinct to mate. In a way, a part of the mating instinct is to be deffensive and aggressive if something interferes with their reproducing instinct. Spaying only makes them not care about the importance of breeding, so they can become lazier or have more interest in you as a result.
Any aggression that follows a spay (or declaw for that matter) is probably caused by the cat having a bad experience, either not liking the environment of the vet, or being handled the way it was, etc.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
if it already is agressive or it starts peeing in the house when u get spayed she probably wont be agressive and wont peeDoes Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
Yes, I don't think they are happy at all, hello they can't have no sex.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
She WON'T want to go out as much.Keep her as an indoor cat,especially if she's de-clawed.Have fun with it.
No it is definitely not true. If anything, spaying your cat will make her quality of life better. No more going into heat and hollering all the time, no uterine cancer when she gets old, etc. The myth that animals' behaviors change after spaying/neutering is just that - a myth. I commend you on the decision to not only adopt, but to spay as well.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I've never heard of a cat becoming aggressive after being fixed. I've only experienced them being calmer afterwards.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I have six cats---five are female. ALL are spayed/neutered. I found they got EVEN MORE affectionate after getting spayed! An added benefit--less likely to get many cancers.
Enjoy and love your new pal! Good luck! %26gt;^..^%26lt;Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
she will probably be less aggresive because she won't be coming into heat. I'm sure her mellow personality won't change at all.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
If a spayed cat happens to be defensive, it could be that way because of abuse, lack of socialization, genetics, etc, not because of spaying. They may be a little understandably touchy after surgery, but in the long run, it may even help her adjust to being in your home.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
their behavior does change, but it's almost always temporarily. They just become a bit more defensive because the porcedure can give them quite a fright. (that rhymed lol).. no but seriously, your cat will be back to normal sooner than you think.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I have 9 cats and some of them were full grown, but unwanted for mostly stupid reasons (wrong color, owners moving, etc.) I didn't spade them right away...some are females and a male. Their behavior didn't change at all except I didn't have to listen to them while they went through their heats.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
I would expect if she is already 3 years old, and on the lazy side, getting her spayed will not make her more active... probably will not be able to tell a difference. Once she is adjusted to your home and comfportable, her temperment should remain same as always. Cats that are really wired, active, aggressive are usually really young, and not fixed. That just the experience I have, I have had 15 cats during my whole life. She is already older than kitten stage... She isnt too old to play and have fun. She should still love to play string, or be intrigued with a brown paper sack on the floor... she should stuill have a lot of fun and be a great kitty for you.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
Cats that are spayed are very affectionate and they are very loving cats. I have a cat that is spayed and she loves to sit in my lap and when I first got her she use to jump up in my arms and hurt me a lot and when I got her spayed it all stopped.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
The only thing I have ever noticed is that the males tend to wander less, fight less and lose the need to spray on everything (though the spraying can continue as a learned behavior). Bot sexes get a little heavier (fatter) then they would if they were not fixed.
The incidence of testicular cancer is dramatically reduced and the spread of infectious diseases is reduced as well, due to less fightingDoes Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
They absolutely do not become deffensive or aggressive from being spayed or nuetred. This involved the removal of organs that emit breeding hormones, thus giving the cat a strong instinct to mate. In a way, a part of the mating instinct is to be deffensive and aggressive if something interferes with their reproducing instinct. Spaying only makes them not care about the importance of breeding, so they can become lazier or have more interest in you as a result.
Any aggression that follows a spay (or declaw for that matter) is probably caused by the cat having a bad experience, either not liking the environment of the vet, or being handled the way it was, etc.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
if it already is agressive or it starts peeing in the house when u get spayed she probably wont be agressive and wont peeDoes Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
Yes, I don't think they are happy at all, hello they can't have no sex.Does Spaying A Cat Change Their Behavior?
She WON'T want to go out as much.Keep her as an indoor cat,especially if she's de-clawed.Have fun with it.
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